So over Thanksgiving I was hanging out with my cousin (were like brothers) in tennessee and he introduced me to one of his friends who just happened to be a girl. Well me and her ended up spendin like two days together and we ended up having sex. It was kinda wierd and I dont know weather to feel bad about it or not. She knew I was from out of town and that she wouldnt see me for a while, but we had sex anyway. The thing is is that the next day when her friend asked about it she denied it and it was like her best friend, but she knew the truth cause she was in the other room. She didnt even give me her number or anything. I dont know weather to feel bad or not. By the way no drugs or alchohol was involved so it was all her choice to do it.
Yeah the thing is I live near Atlanta and my school has like 2000 people or whatever and her school only has like 500. Like im talkin bout they live in bumblefuck but she is just really cool. Like if I lived there i would try to get together with her. She has all the same views as me: hates bush, pro choice, pro gay marraige, anti war, et cetera. And i think because no one there she knows has those views she thought i was someone different. you know what Im saying. thats just my view on it but yeah i found he email on her school website and emailed her and i hope i get a reply
well, if it was mutual sex and she knew you were probably a "one night stand" then I wouldn't feel too bad. I mean, if you lead her on by saying you'd keep in touch, drive up every weekend to be with her ... blah blah blah ... just to get in her pants then yes you should bad. However, from what you said, she wanted it just as much as you did, so again, don't feel too bad.
dont feel bad at all, sounds to me like you chilled with her and she wanted to have sex with you, you did nothing wrong, neither did she
no but not speaking from personal experience but hearing other girls-sometimes girls have sex based upon an assumption that it's going to turn into more
she wasent a virgin and she lives like two hours away so its not a problem to leave her alone but im bout to see her again sometime cause i go up there pretty often. yeah but i dont really feel that bad about it anymore but i have her sn that she gave me for AIM so who knows maybe ill get lucky again
well thats good then =) if she wants to keep it a secret then id just respect that fact u no? but good luck, and hope everything works out
