The worst feeling in the world

When someone you love makes decisions you can't live with... Not that these decisions are wrong, but just that you know that there is such a profound difference in the way you both think now, that you can't possibly continue to be friends.

It hurts because you thought you knew them, as I am sure they thought they knew you... but in reality we both were just fooling ourselves.

It really hurts to lose a friend. Almost moreso when it is by choice rather than by something beyond your control.

All the talks, all the encouragement, all to lead to nothing.

I'm sad.

The worst part is that I know I have been the one that caused this pain to others for the same reasons. I understand it, but it still hurts.

Vent complete.

 

word

 

:hug:

 

Just email him or her.
Tell them everything. Say your sorry ,even if you don't need to.

Don't let that friend go.
Because, i swear, your going to regret not saying anything if you don't.

Tell them you love them and just forget about the fight.

Just don't lose them. if they are lost beyond your contrul and you never told him or her how your feeling you'll regret it for the rest of you life.

I know from experence, you will regret it

 

can you de-cryptify your post and just spell out what happened like a man does?

i documented my whole divorce on here and fucking loved it

 

yeh im wondering what these decisions you're talking about are?

 

...and people wonder why I'm such a loner.

 

boredom.

 

Did you love when _____ tore into you?



Hacker, I love you I think you're a great friend.

 

I'm never bored anymore really.

Insanity is a friend with benifits.

 

i would say abandoment would be the worst feeling in the world, i have felt that a few times

 

Has anyone here into wrestling or S&M ever stood up to fast after being choked? It's a breif moment of euphoria followed by a really uncomfortable head rush.

 

Guys, thanks to those of you that are concerned. I am ok. I just needed a vent. I didn't find it necessary to delve into great detail, I just needed to vent.

Those of you who don't care, you can ignore this and let it fade away. The ones who do care have already made it known.

Thanks.

 

Watching someone go through hell's paces, knowing that there's a way out of the mess, but being unable to do anything to help can bring on the most profound frustrations. Perhaps redefine the friendship and protect yourself with a cushion of distance until the friend emerges from whatever bedevils him or her.. then make yourself available for when the person realizes his mistakes because he will need all the friends he can get.

 

Very well said.

Thank you

 

Oh yes...

I know how that is. But we grow stronger.
:]

 

Should we try? I dont know these insanity benefits...

And to Hacker, this too shall pass. I always tell myself. We are forever evolving. And we can be smooth like water over stones if we let ourselves be.

 

*hugs* shit happens, and hopefully you two can befriend each other again in time. sometimes people drift apart only to come back again

 

For me personally, feeling trapped.