So i knew this girl from 2nd grade around freshman year we both became attracted to each other but we never dated didn't want to mess up a great relationship. So instead we decided to masturbate in front of each other. We did this all the time. Even as we got older. I would go over before school and wewould shower together and when ever we hung out we would be naked (even if not watching each other do stuff) so now I'm 20 years old and my girl friend of three years has known that me and this girl do this from time to time. She has out of no where asked me to stop. Of course i said i would but i don't really want to, nor do i want to upset my gf. Anyone have any ideas??? Help lol
You can't have a girlfriend and a friend with benefits. You need to choose. Either stop messing around with your friend, or break up with your girlfriend and just start dating your friend. I'm surprised it took your girlfriend 3 years to finally tell you to stop.
That's the thing we don't do anything to each other don't actually touch at all. Just visual. And enjoy being around each other
You may not be physically touching each other, but walking around naked, showering together, and masturbating in front of each other still counts. It's an intimate relationship even though you still don't touch.
What did your girlfriend ask you to do? Stop seeing this old friend altogether or to just start wearing clothes around her? I hope that you realize that your old friend is much closer to you than your current girlfriend. Your current girlfriend is wondering about your future together. (Its been three years, have you talked about marriage?) I agree with the other posters that you can't negotiate with your girlfriend to get a continuation of your current relationship with your old friend. One way to calm your girlfriend's concerns would be if your old friend got a boyfriend of her own. But that wouldn't address the underlying issue that your gf. has: "Where is this relationship going? He's been naked with this girl for years, but they haven't had intercourse. Is our relationship going to be the same kind of thing; low key, dependable and going nowhere?" :devil:If you decide to give up on the gf, try this first, ask if she would like a threesome. You might get lucky.:devil:
I think you're going to have to ask yourself what deep down you want. Your girlfriend or the other girl you've known since the 2nd grade. Also please clarify what your girlfriend whats from you: 1. Cease contact with your long time friend/crush from 2nd grade. 2. Or just cease the nude activities (but non-sexual) with your long time female friend. ----- Do you have feelings for your long time friend? If you do you have to consider if she has been sitting on feelings for you too. Tell her what your girlfriend has proposed to you and see if there's not a reasonable middle ground to reach. If not there is no middle ground and your girlfriend is giving you an ultimatum, then make a hard line choice. Please get back with us and keep us updated on your plan of action.
Is this a joke? Both of your rationale on this issue is completely screwed. It's like the girl who wants to stay a virgin so she'll suck cock and take it up the ass all day so she can still "technically" call herself a virgin in her own fucked up mind.