Ok my fiance and I have been together for 5 years. In all that time we have only had sex in two positions; either with me on top or doggy style, mostly the former. I would really like us to have sex with me on my back and him on top. The problem is that I don't think it's humanly possible because of the vast difference in our sizes. I am barely 5 feet tall and weigh 110 lbs and he is almost 7 feet tall and weighs over 200 lbs. Any advice?
I dont quite see how that prevents you from being on the bottom. He doesn't have to be putting his weight on you. That's what his arms are for. You just gotta be able to have you legs bent at a slightly odd angle.
there's lots of positions you can try, why not try standing up? you could have your back against a wall or something, and work it that way. Maybe even pick up a copy of the kama sutra, some of the positions are quite involved, but some are easy and really fun, it's worth a shot! Also, I would agree with the person who said you can be on the bottom as long as he keep most of his wieght on his arms, but above all, you want it to be comfortable for both of you. Have you tried talking to him about it? I mean, if you're going to be married and spending the rest of your life with this man, than this is a definatly an issue to discuss. Good luck!
My boyfriend is 6'5 and I'm 5'4, so I sort of understand. However, I don't think that your heights would prevent you from having sex in the missionary position. Just throw your legs up either pressed against him or over your head, and you're set. Now, if you've only been having sex in two positions for that long, you seriously need to invest in a kama sutra book. Try a few new ones out and remember, your heights are only a problem if you let them be. Work around it, babe.
missionary should still work, but ya'll won't be directly face to face is all. You could also try with you on your back with your butt at the edge of the bed, and him standing
this is unheard of. try getting up on a table or the kitchen counter. let him stand up and you be on your back. after a while put your ankels up on his shoulders and have him grab you by the bicepts. hopefully he'll get teh idea. after 5 years of being engaged and yall being so old, really you should have some more fun, experiment a bit. doggie style is one of the nicer positions, but dotn over do it, yall have to have a good rotation going.
