This is why i suck

ive only ever had one girl friend

she asked me out

she made the first move

she broke up with me

now...ive learned from my mistakes

i liked this girl

she likes my best friend

cuz i suck

 

Hey my young friend,there's no need to be so hard on yourself.A girl asking you out is a good thing that doesn't happen too often, so be glad of that.Her breaking up with you is no big deal because girls usually do the dumping, so you may as well get used to it.If she likes your best friend,that is nobody's fault.Pick yourself up and start looking for another nice girl to ask out.If you learned something from the experience,that's great.Keep looking at each relationship as training for the next one and keep trying to figure out what you did wrong.Most guys go from one relationship to another and keep repeating the same mistakes over and over because their egos prevent them from taking a look at what they keep doing wrong.

~peace

 

your 16, you don't suck at all!!!

i've had one relationship i suck in those terms...but im happy so you have no excuse to be down

 

no, you dont suck! at 16, you've got the whole world at your feet

only had one relationship? dont worry, thats more than alot of people.... and as i said, we are still young


be haaaappy

*waves fingers to send positive vibes*

the elf xxx

 

I have to agree with you 100%

 

did she see your room? did you tell her about the bucket? i'd dump you ass too if i knew that. and how did u get together if you don't leave you room?

 

not pathetic, you're young yet.

but p.s. don't tell any future girlfriends about the piss bucket in your room, mmmkay?

 

harsh but hillarious


nah dude dont worry about it girls come girls go. i havent had a girl in over 2 years but i dont really give a damn bout it. but i will admit the first few months after it ended i fealt like u do.

 

Remember "Women suck" and you'll have that, the one woman u find will be a complete *****. It will get better. Don't worry.

 

Your only 16. Give it time and stay open to love.


P.S. hey at least she came on to you that's flattering....

 

i've only ever been in one relationship. and i've lived two years more than you. and that relationship was only two weeks long. and he went out with my worst enemy right after (as in a few hours later). its not pathetic. some people don't need to go through all the practice, just think of it that way. you don't have to deal with all the break ups and crap because you're not lame. did that make sense? sorry, i have a headache. its hard to be clear right now.

 

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Willy,

I read alot of your posts and you're one of the good guys.
So it may take awhile to find a girl who's actually worthy of that goodness, young girls can be rather fickle because they are trying to figure it all out too.

You will find someone. Just have a good time along the way and be a good friend to everyone.
Realize it is all a journey.

I just got married for the first time 1 and 1/2 years ago, when I was 44.
I actually ended up with the first guy I fell in love with in 1970, last saw in 1971 then in 1998 we found each other again, so hang in there, you never know whats around the next bend in the road.

teepi

 

you first need to learn to get up tro go to the wash room. then i'll let u move on to bigger better things.

 

as of today i officaly dont have a piss bucket anymore...see i can quit...i told you i could quit anytime i want...i only had to do 6 steps out of the 12 step program

thanx your a really nice person too
i just need to stop being so shy...
but about a girl worthy of my goodness...im so pathetic that i would probbly go out with any girl that let me...but its not about looks or even personality(some times) with me...its all about emotion... if a girl truly likes me than we will be together for a long time..

 

hey wonka,

The best way to get over shyness is find something you like to do and go for it. Put yourself out there.

If there's nothing you can think of ask your parents to help you find something to volunteer at.
If you go to like say...help at the special olympics...or at a hospital...or at a soup kitchen...you will gain confidence and you will start meeting other nice people.

Adults always say kids are too young to do anything but thats not true...

Only you can hold yourself back.
And labeling yourself in a negative way only feeds into this, you KNOW you have good qualities....develop them.

These are the things I told my kids, and they both do pretty good now.

 

thanks for all the advice teepi
i think i will try volentering at somthing i like...or at least join a club at school or somthing...

 

wow teepi, thats really inspiring

 

teepi- that sounds like what happened to y brother in law...he dated a girl in high school, they broke up, because of her parents. both got married, had kids divorced...met up again probably 15 years later, are back together ...happily ever after. it's wierd how things happen, huh?


willy, you're a nice guy. it will happen for ya. one of my best friends is the same age as me, and he just started dating a girl for the first time a few months ago. he never wanted to settle, so he didn't. now he's finally dating somebody that he is crazy about, who is crazy about him. i hope you don't have to wait until you're 23 like him, lol, but what the hell, when it happens, it will happen...

edit: by the way, this is my 400th post...hehehe

 

Hippy girl,

congrats on your fourth kerplunk.

It is very cosmic how that happens with lost loves.
I fell inlove with him the moment I saw him, I was 12 he was 25, we were at a festival at a commune.
The next year I lived there with hime for 5 months,we left, him back to ohio, me to Va....lost touch for 27 years...I went back to the commune, it was gone but found some people who put us back in touch.....kismet.

now we are married...