This rejection's got me so low

earlier this year(2006-2007) i was talking to this girl a lot. i really really liked her. i thought she was the most adorable thing on the planet, we had so much in common, and i was willing to do anything for her to be mine. even as far as stopping everything, smoking, drinking, drugs(coming from me, thats a fuckin lot) but if thats what it took, i was totally commited to doing it. and i told her how much i cared about her, and she said she was flattered, but didnt see me like that. i was bummed so bad. now, its about 6 months since that, and i find myself falling for her again, and i know that its no use because she wont like me back. it drives me crazy, i look at pictures of her online for hours, losing myself in her image. and i know that it will be the same reaction again if i tell her. "this rejections got me so low"

 

Stop obsessing and move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

Oh, and just a word of advice: Find someone that would accept you for who you are, not someone that you feel a need to change yourself to find that acceptance. Things will work out much better that way.

Best of luck to ya!

 

changing yourself to fit in a relationship doesn't work. that's not how adults do it

 

you will be dating and meeting all kinds of people so try not to focus on the ones that don't give you the time of day

 

Ignore them... I stopped doing blow for my old lady.

 

Good point spooner sometimes, change is good. But what I think they are reffering to is purley the change of our personality, the people we really are on the inside that can NOT be changed. Certain aspects of ourselves can be changed for the better, for example, to learn more patience from a partner.

 

well you realize yourself that it's no use of being so crazy about her
you should distract yourself
admit the fact yu wont be together
and just live your life, dont focus on that...
if you try hard this will help
proved.

 

thanks everybody, ill try to keep on keepin' on

 

If it is meant to be, it will happen. If it's not, it won't. My best advice to you is to avoid making APPOINTMENTS and you will avoid disAPPOINTMENTS.

Peace and love

 

This chick im practically dating..and madly inlove with... dispizes cokcaine...we were at a metal show last night and myfreind wanted me to try this weed he had goten i hit it then found out it was white rhino. I told this girl immedietly and she just said "Ohhh tavis" whith a slight dispointed but not caring about it voice....she accept me...and thats how it should be

 

I'm glad that you have a great woman in your life!

Peace and love