This thread is for girls only.

We were bored at work tonight and were having some crazy convos.

Lets say you found out that your current bf or hubby had sex with a prostitute about a year before you hooked up.

Would this affect your relationship with him?

 

if he didn't beat the hooker/kill her afterward than i would dump his ass for being a pussy

 

i'm not a girl, i'm a lady!

:leaving:

 

YES. greatly.
I would be pissed if I JUST found out he had been with a prostitute 11 yrs ago.
Not so much because of paying for sex- but because in ten years he didn't tell me.

 

I'm gay.

 

Thats great Now how would you 'actually' feel about it?

 

i would wonder wtf i got myself into, how could i end up with such a loser that has to pay for sex?!

 

What if I pay two prostitutes to fight each other?

 

What if he didn't tell you because he didn't want to hurt you? Would that make a difference?

 

paying for sex = lame, sleazy, trashy, and gross

 

yet lying for sex = cool and socially acceptable...

 

That might not be the case..

Say he was away from home, like in Thailand with his buddies right?

He was drunk and high as a kite.

He couldn't decided which of three or four cute girls to 'play with' so he went ahead a got them all back to his hotel room and got them all to smoke his cock @ $20 a head (no pun intended).

Considering the fact that he didn't actually know you then... would it matter to you?

 

I think I'd be fascinated.

 

The lie of omission -especially for so long - would hurt much more.
I would feel like he was an idiot for keeping such a thing from me, and I would have a hard time trusting him if he thought it better to keep such information from me. I would have to question our relationship if he did keep such things from me.
:cheers2:

If he had manned up and told me in the beginning it wouldn't have been near as big a deal.
Though I would probably think he was skeezy and nasty.

 

exactly

you would

 

why would that even matter though? A prostitute is still a person. Maybe he was just there to get a quickie. probably like the 6 other girls he banged before you. If hes clean when he met you, then that shouldnt be a problem to talk about

 

Which is why he didn't tell you. Are you aware that 2 out of 3 have cheated at least once on their partners without telling them about it?

They know what they did, tell themselves that it was wrong and that they'll never to it again, go home, kiss their partner and tell them how much they love them... protecting the false illusion of monogamy.

Theres less chance of dying from cancer, which IIRC is 1 in 3.

 

It wouldn't mater if it was a prostitute actually.
Hubby banged two girls before me. He told me that- one may as well have been a prostitute.

It's besides the point. he told me of his past BEFORE I slept with him.

If I found out ten years later he had kept a secret like that from me I would be pretty damn pissed that he had kept something from me.
It isn't a problem to talk about,it is a problem to keep things from the person you are with. he can't trust me to tell me that?What else will he keep from me to "not hurt me" , kwim?

 

I took a girl to the movies the other night. That's kind of like paying for sex.
:cheers2:

 

Yeah, the point is, how are you ever going to be 100% sure



Anyway, as for the title of this thread, can we post here if we do the Buffalo Bill thing:



It puts the lotion on the skin, or it gets the hose again......

Ok, I even creeped myself out there