Thoughts on picking girls up at a bar/club

A friend and i had this conversation about picking girls up at the bar. What approuch do you go with, really no matter WHAT you say it will come across as a cheesey pick up line. Tho last time Nila and i were out drinking he had an AWSOME plan for the waitress, thoughts techniques and idea's please.






"no i can't get to heaven.....cause heaven's a place that don't want me"

 

Forget lines. Say hi, smile, be interested.

Met my husband in a bar, many years ago.

 

i'm not lame
i cant help you with lame techniques

dont try picking them up just say hi

 

Im sure it wouldnt be hard to figure out a way while at the bar.

When im old enough im going to improvise.

 

Very true approuch but we live in a time where most guys just want to fuck. Usually if i'm going to go talk to someone it's because i want to get to know them, hence the trying to to come off liek a random pick up line.

 

I really hate techniques.

I think picking up women at bars is pretty lame. It's too easy, and you need to have the courage to ask out a real woman when neither of the parties involved are intoxicated.

 

hmmm i do get the point, i used the "bar" as a reference because that seems to be the place where most people go. You go out with your kliq to have a few beers or what not...............i love how everone is focused more on the "setting" and not the actually question HELL take the bar out of it all together.

 

nothing turns a girl away faster then a cheesy pick up line


all the guys wantin to fuck like ya sdaid and using the lines are doing so why...because theyre not getting fucked ...


but hey ya get to know somkeone and who knows what might happen..like treehugger said her husband said hi and got to fuck her for a lifetime...

if he said some cheesy line i doubt shed spend a whole 30 seconds talking let alone a lifetime of ..well whatever ya want..

if you only wanna fuck thouigh why bother with a line .. walk up to hooker open wallet.. fuck.. no lines needed

 

women pick me up. Its cause of my dancing.

 

Cue Hyphy. . . .

To clarify, I wasn't going to pick up on the waitress, Helvis wanted to. Also I wasn't going to feed her lines. I was going to throw out some info, make her laugh, and get her talking.

The rest was up to him.

 

"Do you have any Irish in you? Because I can see myself in your pants...

Oh wait."

Like a charm.

 

Nila had a very good idea, he's social dynamic thing is an interesting study.

 

well shes a waitress in a bar
to get her interest be the only guy there to noit try picking her up with lame lines

show interest in her..her life her experiences not just her ass..

from what i heard so far though ya dont got a chance so dont even bother (but like i said not bothering gives u a slight advantage over everyone else)

 

I would turn to myself or Seamonster for advice.

Seamonster will probably be a dick though, and I may give you bad advice for a laugh.

 

SO you would judge my chances on what? My general thoughts on a subject, or perhaps trying to steer this into an actual conversation, instead of more mindless drivil? Please oh enlightened one share you wisdom with us. BUT FIRST take that god damn stick out of your ass you pompus cocktard.

 

That's all Hyphy. I'm still learning bud. Told you he's the master of disaster if you want some real helpful ideas.

 

ya but it seems i'll just get random cockmonkeys saying shit like oh i would judge you don't have a chance. Gee excuse the FUCK outta me for not bein a player, damn me and my respect for women, and desire to get to know someone.

 

i'm telling ya guys. Just learn to dance.

 

i can dance a little Walking life, but i'm really not that confortable doing it.

 

You do seem a little high strung.

Around women I'd suggest playing it light and breezy.

Heres my advice.

You see a woman you like. Go up to her, grab her by the hand and stare into her eyes. Tell her shes beautiful and you want to get to know her. Give her your phone and have her put her number in, and tell her you're going to call her. Then tell her you have to be going.

Go with your friends to a bar across the street. Call her in about an hour and tell her to meet you there.