thoughts on trading pics for married loverd?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by bored husband, May 7, 2011.

  1. bored husband

    bored husband Banned

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    I'm in a marriage without any excitement, do other people want to share naked pics to help others in the same situation? I won't ever cheat but would love to feel wanted like that. The thought of a married woman in the same boat excites me.
     
  2. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    There are whole websites dedicated to picture sharing such as RateMyFaceAdult.com

    You may get flamed for 'cheating' on this thread, just to warn you (even as debatable as it is). But I empathize with those whose needs aren't met, cause I remember highschool =P
     
  3. tuesdaystar

    tuesdaystar Interneter

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    I don't think it's cheating if she's ok with it. My man let's me chat dirty. He sees most of my posts on HF too.

    He knows I like it when strangers grab my ass though it rarely happens.

    I think of cheating as deception.
     
  4. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    It didn't seem like from his post that he was planning on letting his wife know.

    I agree with you about cheating being deception, but if it's an otherwise happy marriage, and especially if they have children -- trading pictures is a rather innocent and excusable form of cheating anyways.

    I only brought it up because I was afraid others were going to accuse him of immorality and I didn't want him to get blindsided.
     
  5. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    would naked pics really help though?
     
  6. revvdup

    revvdup Member

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    ya, can't u do a search for porn?
     
  7. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    Trading pics and webcamming (sometimes with lovely ladies from this site) pacified my loneliness in highschool.
    Porn can make people more lonely; trading pictures and webcamming is more personal. Hell, even when it was someone that wasn't fully trustworthy and the pics looked fake, it still felt like I was getting intimacy.

    My biggest worry is escalation and that it will lead to meeting up with females behind his wife's back, and that's where my endorsement would probably slip.
     
  8. bored husband

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    I was not going to let her know. I think it would be exciting to trade with a person, no names just dirty pic trades? I'm bored and refuse to physically cheat.
     
  9. BrambleClaw

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    Personally I think that is cheating in a way, if your wife is not ok with that. I would not be ok if my boyfriend did that. I think you should talk to her about why there is a lack of excitment and think of a solution.
     
  10. tuesdaystar

    tuesdaystar Interneter

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    What exactly are you looking for here man?

    Volunteers?

    *not it*
     
  11. midnights-unicorn

    midnights-unicorn Guest

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    YOu need to also be aware that they may be ok but down the track thin its cheating.....

    My husband knew what I was doing but after awhile he changed his mind. So becareful you are aware of the cosequences and are prepared for them.
     
  12. griffon

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    There is physical cheating and mental cheating and it sounds like you are willing to go down the path of mental cheating. Let me warn you that it's a slippery slope and once on it you are quickly ready for an affair...
     

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