Threesome.

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by matman, Jan 28, 2013.

  1. matman

    matman Member

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    How do I conceive my wife to let me have a threesome? I really want to cum inside her after someone else does. Lol
     
  2. silk896

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    You probably don't.
    The idea has to come from her. Sow the seed of what you want, but if she isn't enthusiastic about it, it will be a disaster.
    Simply - some women (lots probably) have the Cinderella syndrome; Happily Ever After with Prince Charming. (you!!!)
    That includes monogamous sex.

    Also, it seems you want to do it more for your curiosity/satisfaction than hers.
     
  3. ocounty44

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    My wife is similar but she does talk about it and wants to do it but always chickens out before we set it up. What is needed to get her over the hump?
     
  4. Lady-Lover

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    That is always going to be a difficult one, She will either want it or not. It is also common for people to be into things in fantasy, but don't want it in reality.
     
  5. Blue64

    Blue64 Member

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    The wife needs to be attracted to some one. You can't pick him and expect her to go along.
     
  6. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    yeah, same with mine - Women are more emotional about who they hook-up with

    Simon :sunny:
     
  7. mted

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    I can relate to your kink, the thought of the gf taking loads from other men is just incredibly hot. We haven't gotten around to it yet, but I guess you need to make her feel really secure about it and try to appeal to her more slutty side, if there is one (without bringing up that term though). If there isn't, then you may as well not bother. You need to get her raring to go.
     
  8. sexyhotmale

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    I had an amazing threesomes last night with a couple of girls I met online... Neither of them turned up but the sex was great! Lol
     
  9. Son of John

    Son of John Banned

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    To convince your wife or girlfriend that she should let another man fuck her, you will first of all need to convince her that you would be doing it for her best interest. Many women have a hard time believing that their men are not selfish when it comes to sex.

    I have been in this situation through three marriages and in the first and third I was able to actually watch other men fuck them, then fuck them afterwards, myself. With the second wife, she would not fuck in front of me, but I knew when it happened, which made me just want to fuck her more.

    From my perspective, there is nothing more exciting than watching as another man takes his sexual pleasure from my own wife's naked body! Whether or not I get to fuck her right afterwards is secondary.
     
  10. creampie00

    creampie00 If you can't DODGE it....RAM it!

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    Matman- you've been trying to figure this out since January?? Still nothing? Just keep mentioning it to her, one of these times she has to give in!
     
  11. buzzgunner

    buzzgunner 180 grains of diplomacy Lifetime Supporter

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    Whether or not you succeed can depend a lot on a number of things.

    Was you wife a virgin when you met her? If so, you may be able to work the angle I used to get my wife interested. After we'd been married several years, I casually mentioned that it was too bad she'd never had any man other than me, just for the varied experience. (BTW, at this point, if there'd been a really strong negative response from her, I'd have dropped the whole attempt right then and there.) She didn't really react pro or con on the idea but didn't dismiss it out-of-hand, so I continued to bring up the topic over the next few months, suggesting that maybe it wasn't too late. After she'd become used to the idea, I suggested a close male friend of ours and she didn't demure. About four months elapsed between the time I first brought up the subject and the day the she and our friend fucked for the first time. Once she discovered how much she liked it, the three of us really went to town for about half a year. Then our friend had to move and it ended.

    If you were your wife's first lover, and you haven't already pitched the idea to her and been turned down, this approach might work for you.
     

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