how do you politely tell someone to back the fuck off of contacting you? i havent even met this guy yet, we talked by email a little bit and then i tossed him my cell number (thankfully not my landline) and yesterday i got 6 texts and 2 phone calls, today 1 text and 2 phonecalls (neither of which i answered, whereas i did talk to him twice yesterday, both times about nothing at all just video games fuck thats boring to talk about for an hour straight) im almost on the verge of lying and just saying i have a bf to get him to lay off (i mean, there is a guy im way more interested in so far, but we havent even kissed yet). hes also started playing the same video game as me (mmo variety) and knkow smy username so i cant even play that without runnin ginto him. i feel caged already
just be honnest tell him lkook, we really got nothinmg to talkk abiut so why bother then block him if u gotta but it really sounds semiu harmless, just a lonely boy..try being a freind & talking now & then? unless ya really are just creeped out ..then by all means sever connections aany way u can
Just be upfront with him. Tell him you are no longer interested and why. At least then he will understand your reasoning and it might help him improve next time.
i say, tell him the truth. Tell him he is creeping you out a little. I had to do that to someone. Someone that obsessed is bad news.
as the rest have stated, gotta tell him the truth. you not picking up will only pushed him to try harder and it could cost you in terms of phone bill at the end of the month. people on the internet are tricky so be careful and good luck!!
meh i dont get dinged for accepting texts or for not asnwering phone calls. no attempted contact today yay. next time he hassles me though im just gonna tell him im seeing someone else (and i have started seeing someone else, not evena kiss between us yet but thats a rant for another thread to come)