totally undread related

haha so im gonna ask yalls advice since i know there will be no restrictions im looking fer honesty lol
so pretttyy much im gf-less at the moment (me and her broke up cuz she ended up not being into girls anymore lol) but theres this new chicky im into and were gonna date but if i dated her she already has a fience which is a dude so it would be like a love triangle thing ive never done the polyamory thing before but im up to it but she has one kid and is currently 6 months preggers
too much drama or should i go fer it???

 

Waaaay too much drama.

I wouldn't want to be the blame for breaking up a family. Nor would I want to go down on that pussy and end up with a mouthful of amniotic fluid.

Get yourself to a gay bar find a real lesbian stay away from girls who like girls because "it's cool".

 

YES!!! Way too messy Dom.

 

That sounds like a pretty fucked up situation.

 

ewwwwwww wtf is amnioticfluid?? lol
and no shes likes girls has fer awhile and we have history im just confussed
but i neverthought of it like breaking up the fammily :/ cuz her fience is totally cool with it
ugh drama
but yall prolly right
all my friends said go fer it

 

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=amniotic+fluid

 

don't do it. if you have to ask, just say no.

no.

no.

seriously. no.

 

I kind of agree with this... but at the same time, it's totally doable if you feel like you know this couple well enough that you think THEY can handle it (as well as their kids if you're going to have more than just a physical relationship with this woman), and you're up for it, I say why not.
I've dabbled in the poly-sumthing-ry and it can be difficult and weird, but also enlightening and lots of fun... just like like dreadlocks. O SNAP, look who just brought the thread on topic.

Edit to add: Love triangle or flying V of love type o' thing? Are you into dudes too (i.e. the fiance)?

 

i've been in this situation before... it sounds like it could turn into a royal mess, even if everyone is cool with it... is she like... into girls normally, or just now? i remember getting hit on by pregnant chicks... it was weird, i don't know, maybe it's the hormones.

but yeah... i mean, if you're friends with her already, and you just wanted to mack on each other or something... but getting into a relationship would probably be pretty intense... it's like someone above said, if you had to ask, should probably say no.

just my 2 cents eace:

 

not really into dudes but occassionally lol

but thanks for the advice evyone that really helped!!!!

 

I'm sitting with my cat and it makes me curious... what do you think you're going to do?

 

dont do it thats how you get the hiv

 

Hit it and quit it

 

i like the way u think lol

 

In My View, The Whole Event Is Heading For "TOTAL DISASTER"....

Why I Hear You Ask.??..

Cause, One Of The Worst Moves You Can Do After A Relationship Goes

On The Rocks, Is To Try And Start Another "On The Rebound"...

Trust Me, ...It... Just... Doesn't ...Work... Out..... Ever.....



Cheers Glen.

 

all i can really think of as a comment to this situation would be to start chanting "jerry"


but yea, i'd stay away from that whole thing

 

I agree with glen, take some you time, getting into a love triangle does not seem like the best idea to me

 

It can work, but it takes alot of honesty, open communication and empathy. I say go for it!

 

Reminds me of my best friend who has been seeing this married guy, but everyone knows he is getting a divorce. So my friend slept with him a couple times, because he said he wanted to date her and he was getting a divorce, papers were ready, and he took his rings off and everything. We all told her don't do it its going to be drama, and what happens, he puts his rings back on tells my friend sorry but he thinks he wants to get back with his wife. DRAMA...

Don't do it Dom..

 

If she didn't have a kid I would say go for it. But she has a kid, so I'm going to have to say unless you are willing to REALLY dedicate yourself to polyamory, i.e. be there for the kid too, and possibly maintain some sort of emotional connection to the husband... I really don't think you should. fuck, you are 19 after all.

I agree with hdh, find yourself a real lesbian. I KNOW bi chicks or worse, bicurious chicks are a handful and a half. I've found it's easiest when lesbians date lesbians and bis date bis. shoo know?