training to take more length

heyy, every anal training post i see has to do with increasing girth, but i'm looking for length specifically.

my ex was about 7" long, i'm about 8.5", the guy i'm pursuing is my size. i could fully take my ex without any training to speak of, and want to eventually do that with this new guy, who's a full inch and a half longer. i have a toy that's 8.5" i can use (i can only take about 7" of it) and i wanna know what i can do for that extra 1.5"

(i don't think i can train with the toy, it has a 2" diamater bulge at about the 7" mark, and i don't have the money to go out and buy a 8.5"+ smooth toy to train with)

 

my bf is only 7" so I dont really have any issue taking him either. I have been with one other guy who was 8" and i didnt have issue with him either using lots of lube and working into it. I guess my advice is not foing to be too helpful cuz i honestly dont know what to tell you. That's a pretty large dude right there lol

 

him and me both since we're about the same size length-wise (i don't remember my girth and don't have a measuring tape to check)... my Ex wouldn't let me top him (on the rare occasion i was in the mood to) and i found out a little under a year into our relationship (a few months before it ended) that it was because he was "scared" of taking the size. even though he was just 1.5" shorter, and i could take him easily.

i have quite a while before anything sexual should happen with the "new" guy (i've actually been great friends with him for years) we live just 2 hours apart but neither of us have reliable transportation to visit each other XD so i have time

 

aside from getting a dildo to train with, im not really sure. but yea i was nervous taking 8", but turns out it was great lmao

 

yeah i'm guessing i might have to, but i dunno where i'll get the money to get one. i don't think i can improvise something (or if it's even a good idea to improvise)

honestly i didn't even realize until fairly recently that i was basically "HUGE" my Ex was the only other person i'd been with and he wasn't too much smaller, and i'd grown up with only my own cock to compare to so i never really got the chance to learn that i dwarf the average XD the topic got brought up in a chat with a bunch of friends online and everyone was shocked (and disbelieving) when i said my size.

 

yea thats pretty huge, which is crazy because ive never heard of a huge dude that liked to bottom more haha. I'm only 6" so im the designated bottom in my relationship lmao.

 

that's funny, it's just the opposite in my experience. the "huge" guys prefer to bottom and the smaller guys prefer to top... maybe the Fur Fandom is just weird that way though XD or maybe i just know weird people.

dosn't stop just about everyone (who's single at least) i've told from wanting me to top them though >.<

i experience an extended orgasm from bottoming (something i unfortunatly can't seem to do with a toy) that i can't get otherwise. now sure now everyone's the same in that regard, but given the experience i can't imagine anyone NOT wanting to bottom

 

yea i enjoy bottomming, my bf is pretty good at it and i feel pretty awesome when receiving. I just like continuously cum without touching my dick

 

THAT is something i can't seem to achive. the extended anal orgasm and the normal one are two seperate things for me. (wouldn't that be an odd form of multiple orgasms?)

 

yea they're always tied in for me, it could be because im so incredibly turned on when doing it idk.

 

well so am i honestly... but i dunno... i don't think not being able to cum from anal stimulation alone is such a bad thing, it just means i get to experience two orgasms when most guys only get one... BONUS! (of course it COULD also be because my Ex wouldn't tie me up and i just could NOT stop touching myself through the process.)

 

haha i love wen my bf ties me up and just has his way lol. Im usually a little sore in the morning but it is so worth it

 

see my Ex wouldn't do that... he was a sub too, hell the only reason he topped me rather than me him was because he was scared to take me. the guy i'm currently pursuing is a dom though, and he should be more than happy to bind me "helpless" (i'm pretty good at slipping bonds, years of grappling with my military family) and ravage me for hours on end (which is something i'd LOVE to happen)

hell the only odd thing (if that) is that i'm taller than him. actually, i'm taller than everyone i meet. i'm 6'4" last i measured over a year ago and i'm only 21 (in a week) so i'm STILL growing. he's 22 and 6'1", and my ex is 19 (20 soon) and was about 5'10"

other than my height i'm pretty naturally effeminate though. i'm mostly hairless, about 165Lbs, (practically NO body fat, which is actually unhealthy, but i CANNOT physically gain weight) and i'm starting to suspect i may have Klienfelter Syndrome (Males being born XXY rather than XY, which results in being more effeminate, higher risk of illnesses that more effect females, easier weight gain [a trait i do not possess], and even occasinally development of small ammounts of breast tissue.)

 

oh wow, yea my bf is only slighly taller than me, 6"1, but hes got a larger and far girthier penis than i do. He is definitely a dom and im pretty much a flat out sub.

 

yeah i suspect that me finding a dom who's taller than me is pretty much never gonna happen.

but i kinda like my doms to be shorter for some reason. i guess it's because that i AM bigger then them, when i'm made "helpless" i still feel as though i retain some control because i'm bigger. i actually HATE being completely helpless, so retaining that little bit of control helps

 

Use a broom handle with a condom on.

 

XD that dosn't sound terribly safe... and i don't own/can buy any condoms eaither. (hell we don't even own a broom with a handle. the damn thing broke off and went missing months ago. been using just the broom head part ever since)

 

I would just try and get a toy. Might cost money but its worth it. Aside from that, not much else to do.

 

If you can't afford a toy then visit the produce section at your local store. There a lots of fresh toys that will meet your needs!

 

I've never practiced before taking a longer cock. Most guys I know haven't either. I prefer longer, but thinner; Girthier cocks can be more difficult to take.