Trouble getting over girlfriends past sex life. Need advice!

I am 21 and my girlfriend is 18. I love my girlfriend very much. We have so much in common and i think she is the most amazing girl ever. But i can not stop thinking about her sexual history. She lost her virginity when she was 14. I lost mine at 17. She has had sex with 8 guys. I have had 7 girls. And between her age of 15 and 17 she had a boyfriend. Which she went out with me about 2 months after. So the 6 other guys she had sex with have been within being 14 and just 2 months after braking up with her boyfriend at 17. which I find is a lot. And this boyfriend she did have also bothered me. As he had sex with many girls while being with her which she new about but stayed with him. She also had sex with him before she went out with as well as after braking up with him which bothers me. Another thing which deeply disturbs me is he used to choke her during sex. Everytime i think of this it gives me horrible images. Which I can not block out! My questions are.. should this bother me? how can I get over this? How can i block out the disturbing images.

 

step one, get tested.

step two, go beat up ex-boyfriend(s) of your choice.

step three, ???

step four, Profit!

 

Get over it. If you are unable to do that, then you need to find yourself a virgin. Just don't be surprised if she thinks you're a great bloody slut by her standards.

 

What if that chick was butcher and you was a vegetarian, would you care how much meat shes handled when shes stroking your carrot? ..

 

The older we get, the more baggage we have to carry.
The acts we have done cannot be changed, though knowing such gives the facts to make judgements on their worth, and with conscience make an informed choice.
There is (it seems to me) a simple decision to make, is the person worth it?

 

BA da BING

you didn't seriously just come up with that, did you?

also, the OP has 7 and his GF has 8. she's 3 years younger than him.

I think both you're numbers are too high

 

Who's to say what is too high? If you are careful and all of your partners are consenting adults... I say have as much sex as you'd like. But then there is that "consenting adults" thing. I believe 14 to be a bit young. But it has happened, the past cannot be changed. Like Billyx1120 said, OP needs to figure out if the girl is worth it. If she's as wonderful as he says, get over it.

 

Get over yourself.. Your girlfriend has history, but she's with you now. You have your sexlife, and you have absolutely no reason to judge her of any past choises she has made with her ex boyfriend or whatever. She's in a different place now, and she's older. She's with you.

Get a grip.

 

:iagree: Unless you are worried about an STD get over it.

 

The Figures Show She Is Just As Big A Whore As You Are....

I Don't Understand Why You Are Laying Your Non

Existent Problems At Our Feet...



Cheers Glen.

 

Important life lessons. Other people are people too. They're people who are different people from you, which means that their history is different, their thoughts are different, their choices different...

You've both fucked other people before. Do you really think she's sitting there thinking about all seven of your past girfriends or fuckbuddies all day?

You're lucky she has disclosed this information to you. She didn't have to. It shows trust, and if I were you I would just be grateful for that.

I don't mean to sound harsh. I know how these irrational thoughts can take over. All it means is that you're learning to put feelings like jealousy in their proper place...which is neither at the forefront of your relationship nor on a forum, but in a quiet area of your mind where logic and reason can come in to sort them out.

I'd also advise an STI test if you haven't done so already.

 

^ that.

 

shit man if you love her as you say, screw that ...

does it really bother you that she lost her virginity before you and that shes been with other man? really?

who cares about the other guys, the one who's doing her now is you...

it doesnt matter ...