true love at 14

hey, i know that i am in love with my boyfriend (he is my first boyfriend)
i am cancer and he is leo (the sun and moon)
we are both truly in love with each other, i was just wondering if anyone out there met your soul mate at 14?
is it possible to find the person you love all your life at just 14?
i know i sound nieve and young, but i truly am in love with him, and he is in love with me.
i want to be with him forever, when he leaves the room i miss him, i always think of him, only when we are togather am i really happy.

so yeah, if anyone stayed with one guy thru out your whole life, i would really like to have more hope that this could last all my life.

 

No I dont think this is true love its infatuation, its all very fun and exciting but seriously do you think u will stay with this guy - think of all the partys, all the fun, college, moving in with ur friends etc. u would miss out on, Plus u dont know what kind of money this guy is gonna make at 14 .... u dont know if he'll even finish school yet. Cute 14 year olds can turn into 38 year old men who live at home .... maybe he's got no ambition, that can get on ur nerves real fast. Just enjoy the moment, for the fun now.

But it aint gonna last.

 

Of COURSE it's possible. Anything's possible. But only time will tell.

Much love, my beautiful little sister!!

~Peace

 

I agree with nenni on this.

Love is a beautiful thing. Wish you all the best, Little_flower.

 

I certainly think it's possible, but I think just live each day at a time, it's usually not likely that when people grow so drastically, that they will grow compatibably with each other, but it certainly happens. So good luck to you, and whether you stay together or not, you are still having fun and experiencing a new and valuable thing, and as long as you're happy that's all that matters.

 

I don't believe in true love. I do believe in great sex. I do believe its possible to meet your best possible match at 14, but Its unlikely.

 

VERY SLIM to NONE...

You still have a lot of growing up to do when you are 14. I am not NEARLY the same person now, as I was when I was 14...everyone changes and just because you are compatible now, doesn't mean you will be in the future.

 

thanks for you support .
ive never really wanted to like go to parties and just be with any guy that came along.
i dont care about him making money for me in the future at all, even if he did not have an ambition and made no money, i would not care, be course i love him for him, not for his money when that time comes.
but i am fully aware that this might not last, so i enjoy everyday with him, never taking it for granted.
and yeah i agree, you should try and be happy and have fun in life as much as possible.

 

I doubt it, I have changed a lot from 14 and that was almost 4 years ago(not long at all). I thought I was in love just as you describe it and everything we had it all planned out.

Now me and the girl dont speak, ive been through several flings since.

True love is when your 90 years old in bed and that cute old wrinkled person next to you has stuck with you through everything, thick and thin.

 

Hehe, that is a beautiful thought

 

it's possible, I'm still trying to find out. I've been with mine since I was 14 and we've had to do a LOT of work to keep it going. Also, you may not care about money or how neat he his now but trust me it will 6 years from now when you are fighting over who pays what and who cleans what

 

I've heard this scenario so many times, fairplaay if you are in love, but remember you are only 14 and believe me.... THINGS IN YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE DRAMATICALLY

 

I thought the same thing about a girl when I was 14. It lasted about three months. I was hopelessly in love with her until one day I decided she was a bitch and broke up with her. So you see, there's no rhyme nor reason to it, and it won't last. How long have you two been "together"?

 

Well i found alot of girls i "loved" they cheated on me , or dumped me.

 

One of my close mates has had a boyfriend for 2 years now and shes.. almost 16 so they woulda met when shes 14.. theyre utterly in love at the moment.
They may be with eachother for many more months or years.. but, we alll change and the kind of guy i would of liked is not the kind of a guy i want now.. you start looking at things in a different perspective and the things you thought were more important arent anymore.. like you may have liked this guy cause he likes the same color as you but when yoru older you disccover that that's not really what you want..
But that is me and hopefully like my mate, youll stay together for as long as you guys are happy and you dont have to suffer any heartache.
peace and love sister

 

oh ya , my good firend which is a girl , ios dating my other good friend whos a guy lol...for 1 year they where "in love" i guess they where in love of the fact of being in love. They broke up after a small fight LOL kinda sad.

 

I'm in a similar situation. I am 16 and yes, I do love my boyfriend. Who knows what the future will hold?

 

smart

 

It may well be love. Always keep your true wishes, desires, and dreams. Focus on them and they will come true.

 

Me and my girl fell in love at a very young age and have only grown closer and closer, I don't want to go into our current situation as it is very complicated and irrelevant, but even though I haven't been able to be with her for a while and it will have to continue that way for some time, we at least talk on the phone for hours and hours and we always sleep together on the phone. If it is true love then you don't worry about it, true love has a way of making things work. But falling in love at such an early age isn't all fun and games, it'll cause you to mature much faster (well maybe not, I mean, we still finger paint ), and due to the legal/cultural complications, truly being together can't come for years which can cause a lot of pain.. It sounds like you two live close and are able to see each other on a regular basis and I am very happy for you both, just hang on and see how things progress and if it's meant to be then I'm sure you'll be together til the end of time.