u use condoms?

I want to know if you guys, use condoms while having sex?

 

Yes.

 

for sure.

 

dam i wish i could even have sex

 

Always use condoms if someone is penetraitng me. If I am penetraitng a guy I usualy use condoms. If I am penetraiting a girl I only use a condom if she is not on birth control. I never use condoms for oral.

 

Always. No debate, no discussion, no exceptions.
You soon get used to it and the comfort of knowing that you are being reasonably protected is priceless (just like your peace of mind).

KD

 

I agree with you al guys, but do you find any big diference in the feeling, both while and while not using condoms? doesn't this stop you from using it and say: oh, why? I will catch nothing! ?

 

always use a condom.

ive had unprotected sex once and i was certain i had aids... paranoia i guess. something i wouldnt put myself thru ever again.

 

i dont feel any difference at all pleasure-wise. its just that sometimes when youre caught in the heat of the moment with someone, its very easy to fall into the trap and not be bothered to reach over to the draw to get it out.

 

but if ur about to have sex and ur hormons are going mad then is putting a condom on what ur thinking about ?

 

It's one of the things I'm thinking about. Know too many people who died or are sick now. It's not worth the risk.

 

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Putting on a condom is part of the sex, it ain't what you're thinking about. Kissing ain't what you're thinking about. The hair on his nipples that you can pull between your teeth ain't what your thinking about. It's what you find out. Putting on the condom should be the same way. It doesn't have to be clinical unless you're into that.

So, while you're wrenching his nuts, you reach in the bed stand and fish out a packet. And in your passion you try to rip it open with your slippery fingers. And you laugh and he laughs and that's good because you gotta be able to laugh when you're having sex. And that's when you notice he's still hard and that's when you start to talk dirty and tell him how hard he feels -while you're unrolling the latex down his slippery . . . Oops, wait a sec, which forum am I writing at?

Well, you get the idea. It's only a "problem" if you make it one. Sliding a condom on a dude is not the time to be thinking about putting a gold star on your "safe sex" chart. It should be part of the fun.

I've had lovers come just from me putting on the condom. Wait, didn't I just say something about being into latex? I mean clinical? I mean too bad you dudes don't get off on condums.
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ALWAYS when I am getting anal, and usually when I am giving oral.

 

The majority of the time if I am being fucked I use a condom. However, I have been barebacked and have barebacked a few times in recent years. I know it is a stupid risk but, I acted in the heat of the moment. I do engage in rimming my partners and I enjoyed being rimmed. It is a risk I am willing to take. Trust me I know better (regarding anal fucking) the majority of the friends I met when I was coming out 26/27 years ago are dead. I know the high risk of unprotected anal sex. I felt it was important for me to answer your question in an honest manner.

Do I think anyone should fuck or be fucked without a condom when first meeting, NO!!!

I have never used or allowed a condom to be used on me during oral sex.

 

ha, nice point I am Confused, and you really are!

 

bkcmar, thank you for your honesty, it is much appreciated.

 

Hipunk, you're hilarious.

 

Well, I have read many useful info around, but still think a gay preferes it without condom, do you agree? Ignoring the possibility and danger of catching a disease, is it much comfortable...?

 

I guess I'm going to have to be the odd man out .... never have, don't plan to.

 

i've never had an opportunity to use one. still waitin for my perfect boy