unique BJ question: guys' advise, please!

Hi all. Fairly unique situation here.

I'm a straight female, and I absolutely love giving oral sex. Just want to know a few things:

1) what are some sure-fire ways to know if a guy is loving what you're doing? My guy is the macho, silent type who will NOT openly discuss what he likes.

2) They say orgasms are more intense if you get him close a few times, then back down. How many times is too many? There is no exact one-size-fits-all number of course, but roughly... like 2? or more like 6-7?

3) This is a little embarrassing, but I've actually done quite a bit of research on how to please a guy orally. I've mastered all the tricks I've encountered :2thumbsup: and don't seem to be coming across any new ones. I can even deep throat with my tongue out, so I can lick his balls at the same time :love: I used to always try to top the last time I went down on him, but now I'm having trouble keeping it fresh. I do it to my guy A LOT, and I'm wondering if him getting sick of it is a possibility.

4)Every guy I've ever gone down on acts like they're trying to stop themselves from thrusting or grabbing my head. Fact is, I LOVE when my guy loses it like that! So hot! How can I tell him it's fine for him to get aggressive like this, without sounding like some kind of weirdo? LOL

And guys, no offense, but... while I'd appreciate your answers I don't want to email you, chat with you, meet up with you or any of that. Nothing personal.

Cheers!

 

you can tell if your boyfriend likes the head you give him because he will buy you stuff

''fuck my face'' usually will encourage dudes to ''thrust''

for bj technique you should ask gay dudes...they own the equiptment and are likely experts on that subject

 

As to how many times a guy likes to hold off - if he is the type who wants to hold off, then he will usually take control whenever he approaches the vital moment, either for as many times as he wants to, or for as many times as his body will allow him to before he explodes.

 

tell him to be audible. a moan is as good a sign he likes it as anything. i dont think guys get bored of good technique, but then, what guy would tell you not to blow him 'like that' pfft.

guys that have a girl who gives good helmet are lucky. so many women find no joy in it.

 

Sounds like you've put a lot of hard work and thought into this. I'd hate to see it all go to waste, so I'd like to offer my services as a surrogate. I will be more than happy to help you improve your technique and point out what you're doing right or wrong.

 

you blow him often, deepthroat with your tongue out n lick his balls

you can just tell him it's cool if he grabs your head, and keep doing everything else right.

i cant imagine getting bored of bjs

 

Just tell him to gag you with his cock. As for bringing a dude near orgasm and backing off, I am not really excited by it and sometimes it enhances the orgasm and other times not. Also I am sure you were so turned on by my comment here that you most certainly must have the urge to email me or chat or whatever...I must ask you to resist that urge as I already have a chick and I am all that and you can't get none uh dis right hur

 

i think this thread is neither unique or original and is an efn joke. and if anybody has an opinion of anybodys answer they need to address it in public and not behind the scenes like a little bitch!

 

Eh, haters gonna hate.

Everyone else, thanks for the great responses! I just read a great thread on here started by a bi guy about a sort of "slurping" thing you can do on the head. That was a new one, can't wait to try it!

I'm still kind of shy about plainly telling him that I basically want him to throatf*ck me though! I'm afraid he'll think I'm a freak! Like, "what's next? Zoo animals? Samurai swords?" LOL.

 

It sounds like you're the dominate. You need to take reins, bust out the whip and put that muthafuka in check, and say hey I'm in charge and you are MY BiITCH!

 

sounds like somebody got neg repped...

you're right though, "how are my blowjobs" threads are a dime a dozen.

 

You sound like you know what you're doing anyway so ill try and keep it sweet! All the techniques you've learned just switch it up a little and don't do everything every time. Maybe just one or two tricks every time so he can savour the feelings he's getting treated to. Perhaps he's just started enjoying the feeling of hid head being licked and no sooner have you started you'vejumped on to sucking his balls (then on to deep throating etc etc). He won't have time to enjoy the sensation! As for the stop start technique. It might be horny/cute once in a while but it'll drive me mad every time! Sometimes you just wanna blow your load when you get blown! There's a crazy sexiness on occasions where you get raw blown and you cum your load in double quick time in your girls mouth. I'm getting horny thinking about it! Your guys a lucky dude!

 

At the end of the day, if he stays hard, your doing it right!

 

Another one of these how are my blowjob threads! Everytime I read these I can't help, but feel like someone is bragging or looking for attention. You want to know something about the blowjobs you are giving ask the guy you are giving them to. Don't think any guy is going to get sick of getting blown no matter what technique you are using or how many times a day you are doing it. Nobody here is going to be able to tell you what you are doing feels good unless you are going to do it to them. Not sure why you felt you needed to say don't private message you. Are there really losers out there that would send someone who may or may not be a woman private messages just because they say they give good head? That would be pathetic.

 

yes, there are. there are losers out there who would send someone who may or may not be a woman private messages just because they say they are a woman.

 

he's bitching because i dinged'em lol...told him his retarded reply was the zillionth one like it on the internet and not for this site and now he's saying that the thread isnt original


mike...you are prety quick to satart calling names...sorry dude but i'm past that kind of juvenile ''seen it before'' behavior

i'm more of an epic douchebag than i am a bitch..but whatever...

there is nothing wrong with attempting to keep the site more original...thats what i do everyday.....if you feel the thread isnt worthy of a more original response then why did you reply....there is a hundred thousand other threads

these are just words...you can now try and have your words 'beat up' my words.......be original this time

 

this forum is called ''oral and anal sex''....what type of threads do you think should be here?.....

you went out of your way to insult the op without directly saying ''the op is an attention whore''...like thats such a bad thing anyway?.....

she is boasting that she is already good at it...so what?....i boast that i can split logs with an axe better than most dudes my size...lots oif people like to talk about what they are good at.....if you go around insulting them how does that help?...its an adult site....be adult or not...you decide

 

Damn! And I was really looking for someone so enthusiastic about giving BJs

 

The reason I got upset is because you came off like a pretension dick who thinks is his job to police the forum, and didn't have the balls to say it my face, Learn2internet.