i want to start using a vibrator during sex ..i had sex with my bf last night and was wondering if it would sound hot if i just texted him now and said "would you like it if we used a vibrator during sex?" like for both of us or would it sound a bit weird...hehe sorry im now very experienced
Don't text him, talk about it in person. Or, the next time you two are having sex, pull the vibrator out and ask him to use it on you. Then tell him "After you are done using it on me, it's my turn to use it on you." and see what he thinks about it.
I think you should talk to him about it in person too. Maybe during a post coital cuddling session, when you're feeling all relaxed? I can't even remember how the whole subject came up with my husband and I, but I know I was the one who presented it, and he loved the idea.
Concur use it together and always communicate your sexuak thoughts, leads to new exciting thoughts. But talk in words not print