So, I fight with my mom a lot & I have a fear of ending up being violent with people that are super peaceful. I`m defiantly NOT a violent person, but my mother brings the worst out of me. I had 2 dreams that I yelled at my grandma & aunt; treating them exactly the way I treat my mom when we argue/fight. In one of the dreams I started really getting violent with my aunt who is like a REAL mom to me. I would NEVER hurt my aunt or grandma, or anyone else. So why am I having such horrible dreams? They`re so bad that they have me waking up crying...
same. I think we bottle stuff in too much. i'm fairy peaceful/puss about things, but me mum can turn me mean. bottling in the anger is fine... necessary at times, even, but perhaps there aren't other aspects of your life or personality that you're keeping to yourself in fear of judgement, or not living to your high expectations? I find much happier the few moments I'm capable of naturally speaking and let things flow out.
Maybe your brain is trying to tell you that if you're a nasty person, it might as well be to everyone, for the sake of honesty :daisy:
The mechanism of dream is really intricate. Some of the times it reflects your hidden desire. But all the times, it may not be so.
You answered your own question. Your dream was an expression of your fear of losing control when you're angry.
I agree with this, but also you can have dreams what you think about a lot so maybe your mom is really getting to you... you need to find a way to de-stress =]
