Want To Let It All Hang Out, But Have Reservations

Alone, like right now, I don't wear anything. But with others, I don't have the guts to do it. The problem is that I am overweight, which I could easily solve if I tried, and my body is covered with scars, which is my own fault and not so easy to solve. In my mind, I imagine that if I lost the weight and healed the scars, I could literally go to school naked, talk to girls I like, and feel 100% confident. I know this is bullshit, but that is how strongly I feel my imperfections are holding me back. What do you guys think.

 

I know how you feel man. Really, lossing weight will help. You'll feel so much better about yourself. You probably won't have the guts to walk around naked everywhere, but the ladies are down with confidence, so it helps.

 

Do you think I should get the family used to me being buck naked? One idea I had was this weekend when we are BBQ, telling them I can't find my swim shorts, stripping off naked in front of them, skinny dipping, then after I toweled off, talk to them like being naked is no big deal. Sound good? I doubt my parents and siblings would do anything about it.

 

If you think that would work, OK. You know your family the best.

Another option is to find a hot springs or some other place where people are commonly naked. NOT a sexual situation where you are being judged, but just a place where folks hang out naked. Late night skinny dipping with your buddies is also a way to start feeling comfortable naked around people.

 

Yeah, listen to Mike on this one. He's right. Just a question, do you pratice your habbit often? How about this, next time you get out of the shower, dry off and just walk out nude. If they say something just say "It's more comfortable." Then, latter on, talk to them about it.

 

Who cares if youre fat and have scars? That isnt anyone else's business. You should be happy with yourself the way you are, I mean if you can lose the weight and its something as a result of just eating too much then by all means do it but dont feel bad about things you cant help and dont let them keep you from your freedom just because you fear some fruitcakes are gonna make fun of you. Just go naked and if they say something then dont worry about it cuz you know it isnt true and anything they say unless its productive is just a bunch of crap and should be treated as such and just consider these people to be immature twits with nothing better to do than to pick on decent people like yourself, they really need to go find something more productive to do. Anyways just be happy with yourself, go naked and dont worry bout what anyone says.

 

Seeing how you plan to get naked infront of everyone, you should try this:
Start wearing normal clothes. Like full shoes and everything. Then, take off your shoes. Stay shoeless for like three or four days, then take your shirt off. Every three or four days take a new article of clothing off. Finally when you run out of clothes, just come out for breakfast one day buck naked. I think it would be cool.

 

I don't want my wang to ruin their meal LOL. But anyway, I don't want to do it slowly like that because I might chicken out if they start chastising me for not wearing enough. If I expose myself all the way I can't change my mind since it's out there for all to see.

 

go for it. especially if you think they wont say anything. i dont think most families would. they'll get used to it. my mom has always gone naked in front of us, and no one in my family even bats an eyelash when she comes waltzing into the room bare ass naked.

 

It's not clear to me who you might be going naked with. Would anyone else be nude, too? However, if they know anything about nudism and how it usually goes they won't care at all that you have a few extra pounds, or whatever. A couple of weeks ago I went with a group to a nudist resort, and one of the guys hadn't been before. He had been emailing for a while, but had not ever come because he was worried about his weight. Once he got there he discovered in about five minutes that nobody cared, and he got in the pool and started playing volleyball.

If you have scars, people might be worried about your general health rather than somehow turned off by scars. If you are going nude with people you know, you might tell them beforehand that you have the scars so they won't get worried at the same time the nudity happens.

 

Your wang shouldnt make them loose their breakfast anyways. If they get sick over their food that easily then maybe they are eating the wrong thing. Anyways if youre sitting with them at the breakfast table then they shouldnt have any reason to look down there anyways and shouldnt look as a general rule anyhow. They should just think of it as a big sausage anyways and then it wont make them as sick because it will appear just like something thats already on their plate, I mean its shaped the same way!

 

I guess I'm convinced. Tomorrow morning I won't be getting dressed. I just pray to God they don't see me sporting a woody since that would make it even more awkward.