Warning: Cum is addictive and can cause Bi Activity

Now Im at the point where I will do what I need to do, to have the largest ejaculation. If my wife gives me a prostate massage or the strapon, I almost always have a large ejacultion, which eventually winds up in my mouth. It has developed into a craving for it. I cant wait until I get home and can masturbate to another strong and large orgasm so I can savor the taste of my cum in my mouth and throat.

 

Are you sure it's cum you cocksuckers are craving or are you addicted to cock?
I'm hanging to try one but I'm not interested in the cum. I just want to try sucking a smooth cock and see if that's addictive

 

Once you suck a cock you're hooked. It’s all you can think about. Same thing happens when you take your first creamy load.

 

I'm not so sure about the creamy load. For all I want to try I think letting a guy blow in my mouth or swallowing that load are not high on my desires at the moment.

I can't quite get my head around doing it but each to their own.

 

All of us have been in your very same position, @WellI'mCurious. The thought of letting a guy cum in our mouth was gross. Maybe even the thought of sucking a cock was gross. Certainly kissing a guy or doing anything anal was super gross. But we wanted to be with another guy naked, maybe jerk off together. But one night you're overcome with desire to touch the hard cock next to you, and you maybe progress to jacking each other off. You go from guy to guy. But eventually, you feel such lust for the cock in your hands, you have to put it in your mouth, and cocksucking happens, and you love it, and get addicted perhaps. Somewhere down the road you are so super horny with a guy that you want to taste his cum, and it blows your mind how sexy that was, though you might not like the taste at first. But you gradually try more times, more guys, and eventually, some other night when you were so super horny with a guy, you actually end up loving the taste. Eventually all you think about is to taste and drink more and more cum. You will have become a cock and cum addict.

Eventually, when you're with a particular guy you have real chemistry with, and you're super horny, you just begin to love his body more, of holding him, hugging him, and kissing him! And you like it!! It might not be kissing every guy, but eventually you like it more and more. But anything anal is still gross to you at this point. But eventually, following the same kind of pattern, eventually, for some guys, you start falling in love with anything and everything anal--rimming, fingerfucking, and cockfucking, giving or receiving or both. Little by little, anything and everything is possible. We should remember this truism when it comes to accomplishing our even greater goals.

And sometime down the road, you meet a guy who you develop actual feelings for, something that was never even on your radar your whole life. It happens to some guys. And it happened to me for the first time this past spring. He unfortunately was straight. But it opened the door for me, like all the other gradual activities I engaged in. A couple of months ago I developed feelings for a gay guy, and we even went out on a date a couple of weeks ago. It didn't work out. But who knows what the future will bring. The door is now open for me to have anything and everything physical and emotional with another man. And I am certainly addicted to cock, addicted to cum, and addicted to ass. My desires for these is virtually uncontrollable.

And get this: I had an intake phone call with a nurse this very morning to actually go on PrEP, and probably by mid-January begin what I hope to be a very active gay sexual life, and perhaps even love!! And I've never been happier. OMG, be in love with another man?! That bicurious guy 30 years ago who touched his first cock through a video arcade gloryhole would never have imagined all this.

But there's just something about cock that starts it all. And when other men's cum through your mouth begins to merge with your body and becomes part of your DNA, it's like a gay seed is planted, and who knows what will grow from it. I am personally looking forward to what the even more powerful anal cum breeding will do, giving and receiving. I may never even go back to women.

 

@RisingBi
I'm happy for you but that's not what I'm trying to achieve, a gay relationship isn't what I'm hoping for.
Experiencing Gay sex or Bi Sex or testing the water or exploring sexualitie are fine. It's not my life goal to end up with a guy.

If I wasn't married with grown kids I might have tried it all by now.

If I wasn't married I would pursue women and try hook up with men for the experience. I would try meet swingers or attend a group function if I wasn't in a relationship.

Being married I would hookup discretely if the opportunity present a and no-one is hurt.

I'm not against any of it much but I haven't duckedy first cock so I'm not ready to take a load, but I hope I suck it with enthusiasm. I think I would like to have a guy fuck too because I'm open to the idea, the sensation and the experience.

Will I ever blow a guy, if I start sucking cocks regular I might think it's the next thing.

I like anal play, will Tim a smooth ass but only ever rimmed my wife to date. Occasionally that leads to her offering her ass up for anal. I wish she would pay more attention to my as.

Would let a guy suck me off too, because it's kinky or taboo or maybe I'm more than curious. We ont know till I cross that bridge.

 

what is your wifes take on it? I hear ya. I could be fucking different women, easily, but my wife won't allow it for several reasons. She couldn't care less if I sucked a friends dick and would more then likely , want to watch. Problem is I don't have any friends that are alive and feel the same way. In the meantime, I'll fuck my ass with dildos and enjoy my own cum.

 

For you guys who love swallowing - how much of it is the act of getting from the cock squirted into your mouth, versus the cum by itself?

I've lately been trying my own cum more frequently in preparation of some day trying to swallow a guys load that I befriend.

I have to say it doesn't do much for me?
It doesn't taste bad, nor great, just neutral?
I do notice a bit of it on my breath afterwards, so brush my teeth.

For example,do you get off on eating your own cum as well? Or does only having another man's cum do it for you?
Do you lick up any cum that spills down his cock, groin and balls?

When jerking off on my own, I'd tried it many years ago,but because of the spillage and mess, just use TP to catch it, while sitting on the toilet.
I wonder if the fact I have to react at the point of orgasm, to get the tissue,reduces the pleasure of my ejaculation, instead of just letting it fly free, too?

 

once you get used to the taste , its like potato chips, cant stop at one

 

Yes, I've come to love the taste of my own cum, which is quite sweet because of my diet, but lately I only stroke or even edge my cock in bed for hours, and just have six tissues folded in half lying next to me, and when I'm finally ready I turn on my side and blow my load into the tissues. Then I use a finger to lick up all the cum residue on my cockhead, and all the cum that hasn't seeped into the tissues, and continue to squeeze my cock for several minutes onto my finger to take it to my mouth, and savour the taste, and remember the more recent swallowing of other men's cum.

But really what it is about swallowing another guy's load is about giving him the pleasure of being able to actually cum in another person's mouth and have them swallow your cum, which is really thrilling for most guys, especially because most women don't do that, especially the part of absolutely enjoying his orgasm and cum as much as he enjoys cumming, rather than doing it as mere duty.

But even more than that, for me and some of us, it's the gay connection you feel taking another man's seed, he's very essence, and merging it with your body. This is also why m2m bareback fucking is almost universal nowadays. I didn't start out this way, but now I love that aspect, that idea, so much, and the enjoyment I experience is top of the world. That's what makes his cum taste even better. Taste, like all experiences, depend upon the state of your mind.

 

Your question is about eating cum.

My fantasy is about sucking cock and getting mine sucked by men.

For me I'm into trying it because it's Taboo, might be a turn on or might be a bit of fun. If it's anything like sucking on Titties I will get looked easily.

But for now it's about some stray sex, new opportunities and getting do own and dirty just to try it.

As for guys wanting to eat the Cum, good luck to them. If a guy sicks me off I'm happy for him to swallow my load if that turns hom on.

 

Yes cum is additive, mostly when it comes from early morning secret sessions. When I’m home his dick is always serviced by me every morning, Ne has an early morning sex fetish. My wife knows about him but his wife does not know his other side so our mutual 69 ing happens at my house. I love tasting his rock hard cock in the morning while our wives sleep. We are the same age so our endurance is prolonged sometimes as my mouth gets sore getting him off. Which is why I am into men my age, they last longer prolonging the cock sucking experience.

 

How do you manage to do it after ejaculating fully?

 

Its all in mentally maintaining the lust of the act . I used to stay hard after ejaculating in my wife, then carry on again. While relishing in the post orgasmic sensations they would build to a deeper orgasm. It was the same intensity in anything else. Don't let it go, keep building to new levels of pleasure. Still goes today, which mostly consists of pegging and masturbation and prostate draining. Bi fun added ,yet another level of pleasure and fun and I look forward to future adventures.

 

Im with you there. I always produced a very large and constant amout of precum. My wife had me stroke my precum out onto a table spoon and feed it to me. It tasted so good I would roll it around in my mouth with my tongue and swallow. Making me cum right into my own mouth or on my own face was next. I would do whatever turned her on.

 

Very well said. I can remember being squeamish about cum when I was a teenager just starting to explore sex. It's a developed taste, at least it was for me. Now, I always swallow a guys load. To spit it out is a sign of disrespect.

 

In my first 20 years of cocksucking, it was more about cock and not the rest of the guy, so as soon as I ejaculated all gay desire left me. It wouldn't be the same with women: when I had sex with women, and came, I would still love to kiss her, snuggle with her, and even continue trying to make her cum if she hasn't.

But in the last 10 years my desire for more and more of the guy's body has increased, starting with his ass as well, and eventually the rest of his body. When your attraction and desire increases for men, with you perhaps getting more and more in touch with the gay side of yourself, then orgasm doesn't stop your attraction. So after cumming you can more and more easily suck cock and continue having sex in general with the guy or guys you are with (if you're enjoying group sex or are at a bathhouse). True, you're not as horny after shooting your load, as it is the case with women for most of us, but you still feel attracted to him or them, and certainly their cocks, and in my case now, there assholes (I'm a top). I might not be able to get hard enough to fuck him again (though if I'm really liking the guy I'm with and our chemistry is really hot, I might be able to get there again, I think--it hasn't happened yet).

Now I'm almost as attracted to men as I am to women, and presently only have interest in having sex with men, and even having a boyfriend (I am now even romantically attracted to men). When I cum when I'm with a guy, my attraction and desire for him is still strong. That's because I have fully accepted the gay side of myself, and no longer have internalized homophobia. That is what stopped me before, and is, in my opinion, the main ongoing problem in most bi men, and even many gay men. The internalized homophobia is unconscious/subconscious, so you're not aware of it. But it has huge control over your conscious desires, and certainly your actions.