hi guys I’m 34 year old male and here’s my scenario ...in my 20s I suffered a spine injury and needed surgery which led to an opiate addiction that lasted years ... I would find that after a while on opiates the orgasm would dull out. But when trying to come off of opiates the orgasm was INSANE with massive amounts of cum.iv finally managed to get off of all opiates with the help of ibogaine but I find my orgasms never came back. Some r are rarely ok and some are just very bleh with low amounts of cum and no force behind them. Iv looked into everything from weak pelvic floor to getting my hormones check and seeing a urologist ..they say everything is fine my test is 600. Some suggest it’s a prostate issue (which Iv had checked and everything is ok) because most of the fluid in semen is produced in the prostate I understand. I have a sex drive my orgasm just suck and was hoping someone might have a solution or an idea , thanks
Try going without solo or partner sex for, say, five days. Then set aside some alone hours one evening. First expose yourself to your favorite genre of erotica and/or porn for at least an hour without any physical stimulation whatsoever. Then begin with a very light touch on yourself. Engage in your favorite and most private erotic fantasy. Keep it up, very gradually increasing your physical stimulation. But back off any time you feel you are nearing climax. Keep edging like this for at least an hour. Don’t let yourself tumble over the edge till you truly can’t stand the tension any longer. Hope this helps.
Try going to a urologist that is experienced in performance sex issues. You said "they", was this a urologist that has experience with sexual issue in men? Men can have complex sexual nervous issues sometime that involve both the sympathetic and parasympathetic nerve system. Some urologist just go for the surgery side of their practice (the money side) and don't want to take the time to probe into male sexual issues. Might be talking with a psychiatrist and a neurologist would help too to rule out nervous system damage and psychiatric issues.