Apparently I'm not cut out to be anyone's girlfriend we broke up...I'm just not built to swallow as much shit you have to swallow to be with someone alone again....least I'm used to it
I'm with you on the 'not being built to swallow as much shit as you have to swallow to be with somone' I say congrats on not having to swallow it anymore-look at it that way and look at the bright side you can wear heels again as you said he was shorter than you. and besides you don't have to swallow anymore and that is a wonderful thing d;
see M there are many fish in the sea and the guy seemed pretty flawed weren't you complaining about his height and inability to get you off? If he was the 'one' you wouldn't have any complaints about him plus now you can date random guys and have fun-no ties.
Sorry to hear about the break up Missfontella I'm sure you're more than cut out to be someone's girlfriend. I sometimes feel the same way, but oh well, you live and learn to not settle into relationships that aren't right for you. You'll find the right guy - until then enjoy 'guys' and the liberation being single offers you
That's the ropes, and believe me, I get sick of climbing them too. But don't let it get you down. As everybody keeps annoyingly reminding me, there IS someone out there for you...I know, it's generic...but still. I wish you the best of luck.
generic and untrue. how can everyone guarentee that there is somone spefically out there for me? And isn't that a bit egotistical in our thinking that there is somone out there for each of us? Ther's not a specific person, we settle for the best we can get or hopefull who fits us best. But there's no 'perfect' match. Our personalities, identities are as personal and as unique as our fingerprints. No one can exactly fit in the grooves as each person has a groove of their won. I guess it's just all about not smothering and respecting the other persons grooves in their prints. like when I found the perfect sunglasses that finaly fit the bridge of my nose there's somone out there who is as fitting as my sunglasses but not one particular perfect person.
My grandma's sister is 80 something years old and has never been married in her life. Was there someone out there for her and she just missed him or what?
see my point exactly. and ya know what cute dogs and credit cards completley take the place of men now a days. I was watching msnbc tonight and it was talking about japanese women and how so little of them are getting married because they're educated, financialy independent and have no need to get married and sommit to what their society tells them they must do as wives. This topic has really benn on my mind since a conversation I had in the hospital, you know feelings come out when some you love is sick or you are sick and after thinking about it seriously no matter how much I loved someone, how much money they made or how handsome and smart they were it would feel so debilitating and I think I would feel trapped and I;m being told I'm selfish for that feeling and not waintg to have kids. what do you think Annie? I mean I'm not talking like being single forever but just until like 40 but then with how guys are I'd have to be with somone 60 because 40 year old men dont like 40 year old women.
Ok...I said there was someone out there for you...I didn't say, however, that it was going to be the love of your life. So generic, yes; untrue, no. And I'm not egotistical by any means. I simply think that if you set your mind to something, it will happen; it hasn't failed for me yet.
I've never even talked to a girl for more than 5 minuites if that makes you feel any better. It's better to love and have love then to love and never love.
I love ya nothing personal, your smurf is cool and you seem very nice. I am just sick of being told to 'put my mind to it' this has been the reason i have never been single because there is so much pressure to find the one and oh you're so great ther HAS to be somone out there for you. ya know what there's not right now, i wanna be with random people and not only be with one and I want to not be made to feel bad about having no intention of seeing them ever again i just wanna have fun i am 24, never really been single until now and for some reason everyone thinks that i must jump into something with somone nice and I don't want to I want to date attractive old men and go do really fun stiff ive never done before and theres nothing wrong with that. *puts bong down*
I was close enuf. Btw, that quote wasn't supossed to be in my post. I was going to make a rood comment it, but then I forgot.