im 24 and a 36A so im not growing anymore..i dont want to get breast implants but my boobs make me feel like less of a woman..any suggestions on how i can increase my breast size without surgery?? has anyone used a breast pump or those pills and actually got permanent results??
hmmm...well a girl i knew said she used this pill from GNC called "robust" or something. her boobs did plump up like another cup! congrats for not gettin a boob job, i seen plenty of those go wrong, with nipples uneven and boobs way too pushed up. but if u do, i suggest jus gettin 1 or 2 cups bigger cuz tghen it wont look too fake, you know? i mean only get them done because it makes ya happy, right? goodluck! or jus look up some breast enhansement pills - im sure theyre worth a try, right? sorry i wudnt know
There are a lot of men like me who aren't concerned with how big a woman's breasts are. I'd much rather be with a flat-chested nice woman than a holy terror with big one's. And besides, ever seen a woman 35 years old or more with big boobs and no bra? Scary. If you feel less a woman because your breasts aren't as big as the current fashion, that is more of a self-esteem issue.
gaining a bit of weight might work...I have been on the pill for about 5 months and my breasts seem to have grown a bit, but it's possible all the weight that I've gained as i've been stuffing my face with chocolate a lot recently... I used to feel like the original poster, being in my 20s and having the body of a 15 year old (or even younger!! i have been asked to show my ID to buy cigarretes a number of times) but I realised that it's silly to dwell on something so trivial as breats size. You are a woman, no-one can deny that is a fact!! having large breasts is not a synonym of being a woman, but i do know where you are coming from.
i prefer smaller breast myself, when i put on a bit of weight i hated my slightly larger boobs & i have only gone up to a 34b. when i did feel a little out of sorts & self contious for having small boob my sister bought me a gell bra & i loved it. you can get versitile ones that you can change the straps on, so you could have cross straps, halterneck, strapless etc. i would try one of those & see how that make you feel before trying any "wonder pill".
yep yep. i wouldn't really suggest using any sort of pill or anything. start doing stuff that will help boost your confidence and don't think about how much of a woman you are based on your bra size.
well thanks ya'll fer the feedback..i was on the pill at one time n it didnt make um grow..i guess what pisses me off the most is i cant wear a bathing suit like torz there and look good..i actually look like a 12 year old boy..ah well i should stop bitching about it at least i have both my breast and havent lost one to cancer like so many women..thanks errrrybody!!
If I may gently remind you.... perhaps you should delve deeper into why you think your self-esteem and identity as a woman hinges on your breast size, someday they could be gone entirely (ie: a radical double mastectomy.. it's a possibility) Appreciate you for how you are, be grateful for your abilities and your privileges in life, and then if your still weak on the self esteem, go and do something proactive, help those that are struggling with issues themselves... I'm sure you have beauty inside you that is endless and bountiful. I believe that your boobies are NOT what make you a woman. It's your chromosomes lovely. Also, it's this dominant society boobies are overly focused on as an object of desire, did you know that boobies are actually a modified sweat gland? Funny physiological fact often overlooked.
So, and I know this isn't really related ot the thread, but does that mean that transgendered peopel are not actually the gender they choose to become? Ie, male to female, because they have the chromosomes of a man, will never be female in your eyes? No matter how many surgeries they've been through or how their spirit speaks to them? Not trying to attack, I'm just curious. To the OP, if you want to feel like more of a woman, do something that feels feminine to you. Ie belly dancing or, well, anything that you can choose to do in a feminine way. Belly dancing is fun though and sexy :X
Hehe, when I saw the title of the thread I though "enjoy them not being saggy or floppy or shaped weird!" I feel self conscience because I'm afraid that people think of me as being some slutty girl with the big chest if I wear something even a *little* low cut, becuase it's happened so many times before. I try not to wear things that are incredibly low cut, and if I do I layer, but people still go crazy with it, and not always in a good way... And gaining weight may or may nto help the situation... My weight has gone up and down and up and down... and my chest has NOT changed with it, at all. So there is no guarentee that the weight you gain is going to go where you want it... but it might... you just never know... Well, good luck with whatever happens
I considered that very much and I can see why you'd make the connection completely ~ My mistake not to include that subject, but I thought we were address the topic posters individual problem. I've happened to nurse some trans-gendered individuals (I'm from s. colo, google Trinidad Co. and trans-gender, it would be an interesting ride for sure). Some of the happiest patients I've been lucky to nurse and some of the saddest. From my experience and if memory serves me correctly (as I don't have the time at present moment to give research and data to back up everything that I'm going to talk about, bare with me...) From what I remember, there are 2 different types of Trans-gender diagnosis. A chromosomal diagnosis, where a person actually has an extra X chromosome. As I have seen personally completion of gender to fit that persons genetic chromosomes, and the resulting healing occurring with self-actualization, I for SURE saw them as a woman. Infact this individual had sexually started to mature into a young lady, growing breasts, but had a penis also. It was tragic for her to have her parents make her gets a double mastectomy at the age of 12! But even tho she had her breasts taken from her (against her will), she STILL identified as a female, notice I said female (sex), a "woman" is an Identity that we identify with, most of the time the dominant society assigns us this "identity"... in this case, boobies didn't make the identity. As I have also seen another type of Trans-gender diagnosis, called Gender Identity Dysphoria which is an actual "personality disorder" and is more of a "head trip"... But this is arguable as well as new research is revealing that certain amounts of sex hormones that a baby is exposed to may influence areas in the brain to be more "feminine"... Wether the person feels more feminine or is more sensitive to non masculine personality traits , I'm wondering myself, as I believe that we have both traits inside us and it's wether we nurture them or ignore them. So to me, personality traits AREN'T sex traits. This is also arguable when you want to be "politically correct" and as we as a society evolve and progress in tolerance, gender re-assignment is more generally accepted. The individual diagnosed with Gender Identity Dysphoria isn't comfortable with their assigned identity and I don't know "why" this is called a personality disorder, but needs the reassignment to fit the internally held image of their identity needs. At some point when a child internally agrees to accept/deny the gender personality assignment may be wether the development in the brain is sensitive to that and it "fits".. Please have pity on my explanation of this as my grasp of it is not an experts opinion. And I apologized if it offends anyone out there~ I've seen "the personality type" of individuasl get the reassignment done. It's more of a struggle, and I've seen it NOT help them. For some reason there are STILL issues, still an adjustment to "find themselves" and I've seen it help too, and I think that really hinged on wether they were of balanced and had a strong foundation intellectually from the beginning of the gender identity dysphoria. Hence the psychotherapeutic requirements, which are getting more lax as the demand is getting greater. When I was living in Trinidad, I'd come across individuals living in the community during their assimilation phase (prior to surgery), and sometimes it really made me empathetic to see what a long hard road they were on. The surgery is overly expensive and these folks sometimes live in great poverty, to scrimp and save... often abandoning families, and being isolated in a community that is barely tolerating (only because of the business these folks incur while they live there and get the surgery, not because the community is "open-minded", I've even heard judgement come out of the mouths of the very practioners enabling the process...) Some of them have really heavy masculine features that take immense amounts of $$ and pain to play down. The heavy beard growth, the male pattern baldness, the heavy thick hands, the bad fashion sense... BUT THEY'VE ALWAYS & I MEAN ALWAYS HAVE A PERFECT SET OF TITS! But WAIT, I also don't really have a "fixed image" as to what a identifying feature that "makes and woman and woman"... IT's all so confusing. But I know if I had to have 'em cut off, I would with out a second thought, because I know that they aren't what makes me a WOMAN. Bearded ladies, and Breast-less Females Unite and overthrow the dominant society's manufactured consent of what is a WOMAN~ yeee-hawwww~
stop believing the misconstrued and warped idea of beauty that the media is endlessly pumping into your mind. women don't need big breasts to be beautiful and certainly not to be feminine. this website made me appreciate myself heaps more... http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php
You want to know what to do about small boobs? Here's a good idea: Appreciate them. They are yours and the only one's you will ever have and I'm sure they are beautiful just the way they are.
tiny boobs are thee bombarcidy. i never really liked mine. but my boyfriend loves them and would not want them any bigger...i dont even think i'm an A cup. also look at keira knightley, she has small breasts also and is one of the most hottest female celebrities. and imagine what we can get away with,.. no bras [save us money] no sag...no jiggle...im 20 years old and my 14 year old sister is a C cup and im sooooo glad i dont got them mamas...too much to handle.