well i think i just need to get this off my chest... ok... i just erased what i wrote...bc thats not whats bothering me....this is... i love this guy so much...but we've tried being together more than 3 times...and it never worked out. we've known eachother for about four years...the first year we were just aquiantinces (?)....but i had a little crush on him...then the next year we started talking again...i liked him a little more....but that summer was when i really started to fall for him. the next year is when we started to actually talk more and then we suddenly went out...but not even for a week....and the samething kept happening...we'd stop talking for months...then talk again and suddenly go back out....and then break up...now...i'm i have someone...but at times he makes me feel so depressed and unhappy...he just yells at me so much and i hate that....the other guy never yelled at me....or talked down to me in that way. i dont relaly think i'm stuck in between the two...but i just wonder what it would be like to be with the other guy again...but maybe we were just never ment to be...or maybe i'm just not ment to be with the guy i'm with now....right now...i am just soooooooooooooo loooooooooost....and sooooooooo depressed becuase this is really getting to me now. i mean i want to turn to my boyfriend, but its hard to talk to him when he is yelling at me and taking his anger out on me...my best friend told me that he heard when guys yell at their girls for no reason and make them feel bad...he's usually cheasting on them or something...and making them feel like their the one doing something wrong....just please anyone give me some in put bc i am sooooo loooooost.
that is not love honey. it's just "puppy love" as they say. not to be rude, mean or what ever but your young and from reading this thread you dont know or understand what being in love is. This guy sounds like he has anger control problems. Try and forget this guy if he makes you feel guilty for doing something you didnt do. If you truly beleive that he is cheating on you ask him. You two just need to sit down and talk let him know how he makes you feel and tell him what is on your mind. Do this RIGHT after he gets done bitching at you itll get through to him more. If all else fails tell him to fuck off and go on with your life. To me it sounds like you two will always be friends.
Any guy who feels he has to take his anger out on you, and yells at you, is so not worth your time or effort. I'm sorry, but a guy who can't find a better way to deal, and appreciate you for the awesome human being you are... drop him. (this goes for girls who yell at their partners too!)
that doesnt sound healthy!! follow your heart!! if your not happy, then do something that makes you happy!! life is too short, and you dont want any regrets!! *hugs*
