What do you do?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by DancerAnnie, Mar 24, 2005.

  1. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    What do you do when someone consumes your thoughts constantly? When you want to be with them so bad it physically hurts? When all you want is to feel their soft lips against yours and their hands caressing your hair?

    I can't be with him...and that's what makes it even more painful...

    Sometimes I feel like giving up...but...I hang onto this hope that maybe one day we can be together...

    I'm a big sap tonight...don't mind me...

    *sigh*
     
  2. capricorn

    capricorn Member

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    Wow, I can definately relate...
     
  3. Carlfloydfan

    Carlfloydfan Travel lover

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    I feel that way now. Lookin for a way to forget her cos it seems unfair cos I know I'm not in her mind like I use to be. Seems ironic, I think she thought about me more than I did before we dated...now its the other way around.
     
  4. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    Why can't you be with him?

    Is this a break up type can't, a distance can't, a bad timing can't?
     
  5. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    It's most certainly a distance thing...
     
  6. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    oh i see how you are, you're just looking for some gas money ;)
     
  7. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    Why? Do you have some extra?

    J/K...

    But yes, that would come in handy...
     
  8. yummy

    yummy Banned

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    lol......
     
  9. Adgreyga

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    it could be worse, you could feel the same way (as i do) and see that person every single day, knowing how they feel for you and that you cant have them........
    but im not gonna say mines is worse, thats judgementle, so ill just say i can relate

    *sry, ima big sap tonight*
     
  10. yummy

    yummy Banned

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    how far of a distance?
     
  11. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    800 miles...
     
  12. Amanda's Shadow

    Amanda's Shadow Flower Child

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    The person who I spend every minute tinking bout lives in PA and I live in LA. I know exactly how you feel.
     
  13. Small_Brown

    Small_Brown Senior Member

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    Yeah that totally sucks. The worst feeling in the world is sitting right next to someone and looking them in the eye everyday, wanting just to hold their hand and knowing you can never have them. It hurts so much.:(

    I'm sorry you can't be with him Annie. I know how you feel.:(
     
  14. Soulless||Chaos

    Soulless||Chaos SelfInducedExistence

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    800 miles is nothing..
     
  15. Carlfloydfan

    Carlfloydfan Travel lover

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    try 3000 yo
     
  16. Carlfloydfan

    Carlfloydfan Travel lover

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    hey soul chaos, you know the way? can you show me "the way"?
     
  17. wiccan_witch

    wiccan_witch Senior Member

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    I hate that feeling, Ive had it for over a year for the same person.
     
  18. _see_

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    dancer annie i know exactly how you feel when you were talking about the physical pain


    :(
     
  19. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    Distance sucks. :(


    I hope everything works out ok for you, Annie!
     
  20. Cheshipillar

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    i would love to know how to STOP thinking about someone. that would be nice. i really hope things get better,even though i can't say much coz im in that situatin as well (not the distance, but the constant thinking 'bout my love who left me for someone else) just try and stay strong, use reliegion if you have that, or meditation to try and focus your thoughts.

    if you two are meant to be, nothing, not even distance, will stop it.

    but if you ever figure out how to keep your mind of someone, which is seemingly impossible, please, let us know ;)
     
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