What does anal really even feel like?

My boyfriend has been wanting to try it and I want to do it for him and to see if it's really all that amazing. Is it even possible to orgasm from it? Sometimes during sex he slipped but I don't even think the head of his dick can even remotely fit in there...like not at all.

 

He "slipped",,lol,,

 

I'm a dude so I can only give you a pitchers' perspective...

Some women LOVE anal and do get off that way. My current partner has some intense orgasms every time we do it. I've been with a few in the past that were the same way...just loved it even though they were unsure about it before they tried it.

On the other hand...some women DESPISE anal for various reasons. It hurts, or makes them feel weird or they feel dirty when they do it. And not the good dirty, lol. I've been with a couple that just did not want to go there.

About the only advice I can offer is the standard stuff you always hear. Go slow, warm up to it, lots of lube. Your boyfriend can't expect to just ram it in and start pumping away. Sometimes you still have to take it slow once he's inside.

Have fun experimenting!

I guess I should add that these are just my experiences and opinions. An amateur anal therapist, if you will....

 

Imagine you need to take a dump really bad. You haven't had much water to drink in the past few days so it's kind of hard and coarse. Now imagine you are straining and can't get it out and it's rubbing back and forth roughly inside your anus with the convulsions of your rectum and the contractions of your anal sphincter. Imagine this process being repeated for the duration of sexual activity and there you have it, anal sex in a nutshell. :2thumbsup:

 

Yeah, go slow like FunHogg said.

If I were to add, start with your finger first. Then two fingers once you're comfortable with a single finger. Work your way up until you can fit something as big as your man's penis in your anus. Remember to RELAX your anal sphincter when you're doing any of this stuff.

Good luck.

 

Now sing this to the tune of "Imagine",,it's easy if you try,,it isn't hard to do,,I wonder if you can,,

 

lmao. xD

 

Before going in I suggest Tristan Taormino's book "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women." She has a Vivid Ed Dvd devoted to the subject. I haven't read the book or seen the Vivid video but I did see the one she did with Stagliano which was more of a porno movie than instructional.

My fiancee loves anal by the way.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

To my penis it feels absolutely incredible. I find it difficult to describe, however. It would be like trying to describe "what sausage tastes like." lol!

 

Where's backdoorman? lol

 

What does anal sex feel like? It probably feels like someone is pushing a dick up your ass!

I'm sorry, that was bad...

Paz! Good luck with your adventure.

 

I know what you mean, but that was mostly annoying whenever it happened because I didn't want to be in the bathroom all day. lol

Might be different with a dick though :2thumbsup:

 

It -can- feel ridiculously amazing for the girl, and it -can- give you earthshattering orgasms. And it WILL feel amazing for the guy definitely try it. Don't use too much lube though! i kept being bombarded with "USE TONS OF LUBE" and it turns out that "tons of lube" makes for really bad anal sex. only use a little. sometimes we don't use ANY lube, just some natural moisture borrowed from the vagina

 

I have a couple of Butt Plugs. Unfortunately I can never manage to fit the larger of these, which is the vibrating one, into my anus, but the curious thing is that I've had many real penises of twice the size of the Butt Plug, and more slipping in with absolutely no problems.

 

My wife does say it reminds of her of taking a shit but she likes anal a lot anyways. As long as she likes it, good enough for me.

 

putting anything up the rectum without clearing it of waste matter , can be life threatening...... / not just a dirty experience..

 

Buy a small dildo (smaller than your boyfriend's penis) and see what it feels like. Do the penetrating yourself, so you can be in complete control. The odds are you won't like the sensation, at least not at first. It's like a small child first tasting a hot pepper, the first reaction is probably not pleasure; but over time we often learn to crave what was first perceived as painfull. I still remember my first taste of beer; I hated it!

The physical response to anal sex is largely a matter of attitude. If you're fearfull and expect it to hurt, you're almost guaranteed to have an unpleasant experience. But if you undersand that you will be feeling something very intense that you may learn to love, it changes your perception.

Also, over time, with repeated anal sex, the anus will become more relaxed and anal sex will become easier.

 

^^^ and over time, it will become this gaping hole with all sorts of things going in and out of it. Gerbils, old copies of Harper's Bazaar, little men in army suits,,,

 

I just don't want to be unable to hold in my shit.

 

IMO shouldn't be a problem, if you use proper lube/relaxation.

If anything hurts, you should be done it differently. There's a lot of info online about doing it right.