What first attracts you to a woman?

I think most of us guys are probably very visually-oriented when it comes to what attracts us to a woman. Yeah, with time, there are other things about any given woman that one can find sexually stimulating and perhaps even overcome the visual attraction.

But, from a "standards" standpoint, how do you rank yourself?

Will just about any woman do? Only a pretty face, must have an excellent body, young, attractively dressed, etc.?

I've seen this one young lady around town and I really find her interesting. Face-wise she's not much to look at, but she's got a really nice long and lean body, is always wearing sexy clothing, and just has that certain something about her.

She's never given me a second look...........which only makes her more interesting and attractive.

I think I have a new project.:2thumbsup:

 

I'm as ugly as last week's pet vomit, so I rank myself as "emetic" on any looks ladder.

But what attracts me is a woman's bearing, her level of confidence and her smile. Big small, short tall, whatever, EE cup or A flat chest, bubble butt or flat ass doesn't matter. Does she seem like fun and does she smile?

If yes, then we go to stage 2, which involves me getting a drink thrown in my face...........

 

it depends on the woman. if she's good looking, it's her looks. if she's not good looking, but has a good personality, it's her personality. if she's good looking and has a good personality, it's going to be her looks because that's immediately apparent and the personality takes some time to find out.

my standards are probably about average. i can't make myself be attracted to obese people, or complete cunts, but i'm not super picky beyond that.

 

I agree on obese women, but sometimes complete cunts just need a good fuckin'.........no need to be especially attracted to them.

 

6 out of 10.

No.

A pretty face helps, but I`m body crazed. I like athletic, independent girls-next-door. Heels, make up, jewelry, cleavage, skirts are all deal-breakers.

Especially if she can`t wipe the stupid manipulative smile off her face. Chicks who train themselves to ignore men in order to get attention and put themselves on a pedestal are a no-no. Give me a straight face, straight-to-the-point chick any day.

Finally, I like women who fuck a lot and fuck well. There`s no two ways about it. I do not believe in "a lady in the streets, a whore in the sheets." No virgin-whore complex here...

You`re nuts.

 

How they hold themselves, smiling, the way they walk, their eyes, personality, their laugh, a good conversationalist..
There is no 'one' thing that attracts me to someone, theres usually a plethora of things.

I will however always notice if a girl is bare foot. Not to say I look at feet a lot, but I do notice.. guys too. I just notice when people aren't wearing shoes, and that gives me a good indicator that they are someone I would like to get to know.

 

she looked like a rainbow of color..

 

Hm, I'm an alright looking guy I guess - women have just as varied taste in men as men do in women, so some find me attractive, others not so much. In any case, I find humor is a better ally than good looks.

I do prefer a pretty face. In terms of body I prefer a bit on the curvy, voloptuous side. Breasts don't have to be real big, but I'm definitely into long shapely legs.

Anyway, have to agree with Cherea though - if a woman isn't paying attention to me, I won't pay attention to her. Fuck that shit, show a little interest and we'll go from there. But really, if she's not paying any attention I assume she is literally not interested, if she were then why pretend not to be? Rhetorical question, I don't give a damn.

 

Today's letter is the color rainbow.

 

Probably the hair. I like a girl with long hair.

 

Hey Cherea, you'd love the girls down here in the pueblos. With the exception of cleavage (most of them show it if they've got it), the don't wear fancy clothes, high heels, perfume, etc.

For most it's blue jeans and cowboy boots....and you should see them ride horses. I'm always amazed to see an otherwise small-framed woman mount a horse and ride that sucker like John Wayne.:2thumbsup:

 

i also like 95% of women under 60 years old.

 

I look to see how she carries her self, Is she confident then it goes to her eyes and her smile. We have to connect. I hate selfish people.

 

I won't bother with a woman unless I think "Wowwwwwwwwwwww, look at that". Looks are extremely important to me. They're a pre-requisite for a casual relat. But if she's an idiot, I won't take it any further.

In fairness, I think a lot of women, and guys don't make enough of their natural appearance potential. Too much food, drink, drugs, not enough exercise will drag people down.

In the past I've been out with a group of guys in a drinking type bar and found they've got it on with some easy, plain looking girls. BUt I won't bother if the girls don't look my type. Some guys seem to resent that, but I couldn't give a fuck.

1st thing I look at is the cheekbones, then the face, then the body, clothes.
And then personality, character and humour, interests and maybe brains.
Bad character/attitude is a really big turn off for me.

 

Her hot boyfriend.

 

You crack me up.

 

Eye contact - prolonged. When a woman makes eye contact with me, that's how it starts. It's a good indication that she's interested, and that's #1 on the checklist for me. I can't be attracted to a woman if I don't feel that initial connection, no matter what she looks like.

 

It depends what angle I'm looking at her. I like a girl who has a cute/pretty face. If I can't see that, then I'm checking out her butt.

 

Her curves

 

Prolonged eye contact with a woman you've never met or seen before is almost electric, isn't it. It's not happened to me that often, but when it does it's one fantastic feeling.