So the other day my best friend Sami and I were discussing our latest sexual experiences with our boyfriends, as we do all the time, and another friend of ours C was completely disgusted. She thought that mentioning sex was inapropriate, although we were discussing it amongst ourselves in a small group of friends. I was not shocked that she felt sex was innapropriate, she is the kind of girl who thinks hugging or seeing another woman's breasts is gross. But then a couple more girls agreed with her, they seemed to think that sex was dirty, embarrasing, shameful and not something to be talked about. Then Sami and I ended up feeling dirty and ashamed ourselves, because we both enjoy sex, and find great pleasure in it and everything that comes with it. We talk about it because it is a part of our lives, and no less embarassing that what we had eaten for lunch. What is going on with girls these days? Or is the problem Sami and I? Because we love sex and we enjoy talking about it.
those other girls are obviously too self-consious to talk about sex 'cause they're likely scared of being labeled a slut. and having sex with a commited partner isn't slutty. we all know what slutty is here.
Maybe they should just grow up. Then again... at 17, I thought there were a lot of "sluts" out there at my school.
Could be a number of things. Perhaps they are jealous virgins. perhaps the only experience having sex was in the dark, on a new moon, in the missionary position, with their eyes closed. Then again they may just be prudes. You've got the right attitude and you will have a very health sex life because you are so open. Just imagine what their sex life is going to be like. Boring and unsatisfying, becasue they hate talking about it they will never let their lover know if they just lick one inch higher then they will have an orgasm. I tend to laugh at people like this. Enjoy your sex, baby. You're hot, you should enjoy it. OH! I just thought of something. Maybe they wanted your lover and are pissed at you because you got to him or her first so they make the digs at you to feel some measure of revenge. Might bring that up next time they make you feel sluty.
probably a mixture of guilt (girls arent supposed to like sex!), bad experiences, and being too damn far from their sexual peak
They just need to grow the fuck up, thats all. You guys are perfectly healthy girls. Dont feel dirty, ashamed, embarassed, or shameful becuase ts a beautiful thing, and you guys know it! Hopefully they'll get it sometime soon.....
There's no need to worry or think about it too much. It's just a typical behavior of immature teenage girls who are not prepared for sex yet From what i remember when i was in high school, a lot of girls were like that Kids mature differently at that age. Biologically you are not at the same age, that all (maybe you shouldn't talk about sex next to them right now just like you wouldn't talk about sex next to a 13 year old ) One year from now they might talk / think like you You're both Okay ...They just need some more time to grow up that's all.
If they can't talk about sex and be so disgusted with what in only natural. Just tell them sex was the way that they got there and to just grow up and stop acting like little babies.
Some people see sex that way, others dont. There is nothing for you to be ashamed of, so dont be! Its a personal matter, tell them if they dont like it to go away while you and your friend enjoy your conversation. lol