What Non-Physical Attribute Most Attracts You to the Opposite Sex

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by knottybaja, May 5, 2006.

  1. knottybaja

    knottybaja Member

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    Please refer to what sex you are talking about and thank you so much for taking the time to read and reply. much love :)
     
  2. Smelly Socks

    Smelly Socks is probably lurking

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    Any sex will attract me with a good sense of humor.
     
  3. lankymidget

    lankymidget Worlds Tallest Dwarf

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    I need an intelligent sense of humour... Much longer lasting if I can laugh at a joke.. Then go away and find another angle to amuse myself with... Her humour also has to be wide ranging... Of many topics, and different degrees of tasteful and tasteless...
     
  4. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    I like these qualities in men and women:



    Yeah, it's cliché but a sense of humour is incredibly sexy. Someone into music or something artistic. I don't mean that they have to be into any particular bands, but someone with an interest in and appreciation of music is an excellent find.:p And animal lovers. Love me, love my pets.:)
     
  5. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    I prefer women who are depressed. True emo is sexy. And much easier to victimize.

    No really, I love geeky, brainy women. So much so that I married one.
     
  6. liguana

    liguana Member

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    I'm with bella donna when it comes to music, even better if they can dance. Music was my first love, and prolly will be my last ;).
    Other than that, compassion, intelligence. I seem to gravitate towards men that make me laugh and bring my sense of humour out.
     
  7. FrozenMoonbeam

    FrozenMoonbeam nerd

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    Yes, he's gotta be able to make me laugh and to love to laugh. Loving music is a plus too, as is loving to boogie (espcially if, like me, he's shite at it, but does it anyway)

    and a bit of compassion doesn't hurt - I'm vego, so I find vegetariansim/veganism to be hot :)

    and erm, yeah...the geek thing. Intelligent guys, mmmmm. Especially the ones who don't advertise their intelligence, who just are, without having to crow about it. Niiice.
     
  8. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    Intelligence, creativity, compassion, drive, confidence, artistic, sensuality and loyalty.
     
  9. Oz!

    Oz! Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    i'm another who finds a sense of humour sexy :D

    and.....

    lovers of excitement, artistic, extrovert, i'm a gobshite.. i love to chat... so i get bored by anyone that doesn't enjoy a good convo, I love people who have a slight weird/zany part to their character as well.....i find a lil' unpredictability fun!

    so, not really the shy wallflower type..... I like lasses that grab life by the balls and ride it as hard as possible...... not the ones that stand back and watch it roll past :)
     
  10. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    Confidence, nerdiness, intelligence, positivity/supportive/caring.
     
  11. Style

    Style Member

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    An outgoing bubbly personality.
     
  12. kissya

    kissya Head Mistress

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    I person who is not afraid to try something...new.
     
  13. Charise

    Charise Naked to the Cosmos

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    Gentleness, soft-spoken, caring, romantic, sensual.
     
  14. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    I feel so attracted to people who are deep, intelligent, compassionate and humble.
     
  15. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    in a woman

    laid back, independent and focuses on the positive attributes in others
     
  16. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    The following is what I would like in a girl, and quite luckily DO see in my girlfriend.



    Open-minded, positive, alternative approach to life, how well we can connect, kindness, good sense of humor, nerdiness/geekiness(in a good way, I might add), weirdness(again, in a good way), intelligence...and more.
     
  17. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    same as kayleigh ...I love dorky guys they're adorable. but also humor is a big one, compasion, athletic-but not too athletic where I feel self-concious. I also have a thing for guys who are water addicts and like to surf, are great swimmers, divers kayakerr, one on one basketball is sexy if they smoke ya in like a second. I like guys with good taste too as long as they're not snobby about it. I dated a really old guy a couple of months ago and had some bomb ass dates but he acted shocked at my winery manners d: ...it's like dude im 24 my manners are drink as much as i can and make sure you buy a cork screw and few bottles for the road so someone who likes my pancake eating no danish blue liking self. and no viagra is a + too

    but yeah I'm with you intelligence is my number one thing and common sense because I don't have any.
     
  18. Pool Shark

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    ability to communicate is a big one, if I can't carry a conversation with you, then its not worth my time. sense of humor is big, I'm such a humor whore its unbelievable.
     
  19. hippiehillbilly

    hippiehillbilly the old asshole

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    female.

    independance,stubborn, work ethic,(coincides),acceptance,truthfulness,
    mutual respect.
    an i found it... :)

    luv n lite
     
  20. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    awwwwwweeeeeeee that's so sweet :)
     
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