Big changes coming up for the daughter in law.We're all hurting today.We're not working and we're trying to be as supportive as possible,but when a women gets beaten,raped and stabbed----what now.I sincerely hope the cops find "HIM" before my family does,because what was doubtfull in my mind has now been resolved.This is bad.Real bad.
oh, just DAMN. i'm so so sorry. jeez. i'd send the strongest vibes i can for you, but that just sounds trite. i'm so sorry, scratch.
Thank you ,sweetheart.Got the vibes--we're holding up.That mf'er is STILL out there.We fear for others.
i feel weepy for you. i'd want to kill, viciously, horribly, unforgivably. hold strong, be your loving self. bless you all. i'll keep you in my heart.
Scratcho, I'm so sorry to hear this. You will all be in my thoughts as well...please keep us updated as to what is happening. I will sending you all the good vibes...
Thank you SUS.Neglectfull of me not to mention she's emotionally devastated.Counciling will def be in order.There are some "underground" things happening about this.Can't say too much tho.
I know this might be a bad thing to say, but I almost hope that your family WOULD find him before the cops, because then he would get the punishment that he deserves. Please keep us updated...I'll be thinking of you and your family.
Scratcho, I am new to the forums, but I will be sending all my good thoughts toward you and your family. I know "I am sorry this happened to you and yours" isn't really going to help much, but I am, and as I said, I will be sending strong good thought toward you all.
Scratcho, She's going to need a lot of support for the guilt, for whatever collection of excuses, we still, somewhere deep down as a society, blame women in a rape. At least it is now "as well as the man," but there is still a shame that she will have to deal with... for the rest of her life. Your son will definitely see his relationship with her change. someone used what was pleasure as a weapon to inflict violence, and that makes any intimacy difficult. Get her body healed, then her mind and spirit. Make sure she ALWAYS feels as safe as possible. Be aware of when the obvious presence of others irritates her. It can be hard to say, "hey, I know you are worried and I am a bit scared, but I need to (whatever) alone." when/if the LEOs get this guy, she'll need a lot of support to help put him away. Reliving the attack for court can be as hard as the actual attack psychologically. I wish her a complete healing, and the rest of the family as well.
