what should i do?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by partyon, Jun 18, 2004.

  1. partyon

    partyon Member

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    Well a month this dude I've liked for a really long time asked me out!!! I was sooo happy. We've been soo happy together, but yesterday me and my friend hung out at my place and ate some pizza and watched some tv. Well nothing bad only my friends a guy, but still nothing wrong with that. Well, when he left, he called me and told me he couldn't hide it anymore that he liked me and has ever since we met(which was 10 years ago) and I have feelings for him too but I love my boyfriend!!! what should I do? My roommate told me to go for the other guy, but my friend at work said keep the boyfriend... im soo confused
     
  2. loveflower

    loveflower Senior Member

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    follow your heart- which one can you imagine falling asleep in his arms, staying in love when you've both grown old, all that good stuff that comes along with love
     
  3. maryjaneguitargurl

    maryjaneguitargurl I am just like you.

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    Whos HOtter?? JK ahha just let ur heart speak. Even if you fall in love with someone you can still have crushes I think i dont know im not dating. But good luck to ya ...

    peace
    chickens
     
  4. Bohemian_Child

    Bohemian_Child Member

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    i was in love with my (now ex) boyfriend. Im sure i'll always love him. (my first love, sigh) anywho, but i had crushes on others. One of them i still like now (and im dealing with that in my own post, haha) but most of them were just crushes and faded. Its totally natural to crush outside of your relationship. Everyone does. Its un-stoppable.

    Just look at it this way, though. You can only stay with one (unless youre really really skilled :) ) and its hard to analyze who youd rather be with, so hows this: Who would you regret NOT being with more? Its better to be a little sad that you hurt someone or couldnt be with someone than to deal with the regret of choosing the wrong person and not following your heart. Its hard, but just think and be honest and youll realize who youd rather be with. Its hard. Ive been there. Im sure everyone has at some point
     
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