what should i do?

Discussion in 'Parenting' started by iceylizzie, Nov 12, 2004.

  1. iceylizzie

    iceylizzie Member

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    i didnt know where to put this entry. i had it in people, but applespark suggested i put it here, so here it is. Ok last week my dad told me that my sister moved... to God knows where. and that His ex wife was trying to get custody of Madison (one of my sisters kids) and My sisters ex-husband, was trying to get custody of the other 2. then he explained to me why. My sister had been leaving her kids for days, and sometimes with no heat and no water, and when there was water, it wasnt even warm. and when my sister was home she was smoking pot with her olderst daughter who is 15. and she was also running a pornography site.... and she made her daughter take the pictures. and we dont know if she made her daughter be in any but its a good possiblity. and the last time anyone tried to take her kids away she tried to commit suicide... No one is allowed to contact any of them, and im scared ill never see them again.
     
  2. BobbinBecca

    BobbinBecca Member

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    I'm sorry, I don't really understand, what do you want to do? Does she have the kids now? Is it in your power to go after her and help her/ be with her/ talk to her? What do you mean no one's allowed to contact them who is them?

    If my sister were into something like this, and she might have gone down that road once, she drank and drugged a pregnancy right out of her once, I'd tell my job I'm leaving for a while hop on a bus and go help my sister. If that means distracting her while I let services take her kids I would do that, but only if she was seriously demented or seriously selfish, the only two reasons I could ever see why someone wouldn't want to be a good mom. Otherwise, she probably needs help, can you give it?
     
  3. Applespark

    Applespark Ingredients:*Sugar*

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    Somekind of intervention is what you need/ she needs/ the kids need.
    Seems liek of what you already know thers a lot of bad things going on at her house..what about the things you don't know about? Kids don't know what it means that someone cares to intervine (sp?) until later in life. If you can proove soem things like drug use and sexual abuse you can get her kids taken from her...you know you have to do whats right in your heart...letting kids live like that just because you are scared of loosing your sister ( who's not that great of a person it sounds like~Or just needs some help) and don't want to butt in. Where is the line you draw where you need to step in? So she's gone? with her kids? I'd say find a way to find them. Eather that or let them out of your life ...they seem like toxic people who are just going to be toxic to your life forever
     
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