*I not sure where to put this so i figure its best here* Well today Im talking to a good friend of mine since elementry (lets call her fizz) and she and a firend of ours had planned a girls night sleep over thing. She then mentioned a girl I called it quites with (lets call her Joey) was hosting it at her house. Fizz then said Joey said it was okay if I came. which is odd because she basically told me in an email 2 months ago that she hated me, and that I was a bad person for not being her friend. We aren;t friends any more because she was jelouse of every friend I had, she wanted to move out where I was and go to the same school, she called me everyday, she put me down, and worst of all she said something mean about my sister. You can screw with me all you want but when it comes down to family fuck off. I told her nicely that I did not want to countinue contact on 2 different occasions! well I told fizz im not coming for the fact that I don't want to be around her. I mean she was fun and we had good times and I still miss her but I don't want to recindle our friendship. I am going to miss all my old friends, but Id rather not be around her and give her the wrong idea. But this left me thinking am I doing wrong by not going? I mean I do miss her but I don;t want to be friends. Should I go to see my other friends at her house? Im just a little confused and shakin up .... A blast from the past is best way to discribe it.
Well the way I see it, you have 2 choices. Either go and not talk to her any more than necessary, polite conversation, or don't go. Surely if you explain to Fiz why you don't wnat to go she'll understand. Good luck