Okay, last year, me & my best friend talked to a shit load of females. One of these females included an ex of his who seemed to have a nasty attitude. Needless to say, shortly after getting back into contact with her, he cut off contact pretty soon because of that. About a week or two ago, we run into her in person, & now, she's claiming to be his girlfriend. Now, what's the funny part to this story? He's not really too quick to claim as her as a girlfriend? Why you ask? Well, last week, he was getting his hair braided by her. We're all sitting on the couch, & she announces that she's a stripper. We both talked about it later, & were equally shocked by it. I talked to him a few days ago, & he tells me these guys who have been showing him pictures of her naked & shit, which means she's not really the loyal type as far as a relationship goes. And now she's being friendly with me. It's not exactly flirting, but I get a sense it'll lead to that. The question is...what should my friend & I do about this girl? I'm thinking threesome, which I'd only consider because he's my bestfriend, & if it does happen, I know he wouldn't care because....well, she's a stripper. What should we do?
I'll suggest that to him, seems like the smart thing to do if she does get around as much as we currently assume. Hopefully she's clear & clean, though.
What the hell? All the explanation on how you dislike this girl. Then you decide that you and your friend should have a threesome with her. How the hell did you come to that conclusion? You should think with your head that's above you're shoulders, instead of the one between your legs. I think you should leave her alone, you said it yourself she sleeps around should could have a disease.
I never said I disliked her, if anything, I implied I disliked her attitude before, but I said now she's cool attitude wise. I'm not making excuses for her, but we're not sure how much she sleeps around, & I haven't really discussed this in detail with my friend since I haven't seen him lately. The fact that she gets around is the only part that really worries me....I'm hoping she's clean whether we end up doing it or not, I wouldn't want anyone catching something, let alone myself.
"I know he wouldn't care because....well, she's a stripper." Better check the accuracy of this with him first. She's a stripper, she (artfully) gets naked for money. It doesn't imply that she is touching anyone other than your friend. What does your friend think his relationship with this woman is? Does he think that you get a vote in deciding "what should my friend & I do about this girl?" If the two of you really think that a 3-some is an option, my observation is that, when looking back on my life, it's more satisfying to regret doing something than to regret passing up an opportunity. (BTW, do you have a girlfriend? Are 8 elbows too many for one bed?)
Just sharing my appreciation for your use of the English language. Sorry it was not at all useful or on topic. I hope you figure out what to do with this situation (and possibly get some action. but use a condom.)
I did check with him, hence why I said he wouldn't care. And if eating out another stripper while shaking your ass is artful, then God help us all. :eggnog: Also, no, I don't have a girlfriend, because I'm not looking for one at the moment.
Alright, everyone, I have a little update, which comes with good news. To make a long story short, she ended up having to go to the hospital (nothing too serious though) & during that time, according to her mother, she had her blood taken. Now, as far as I know, if there was anything irregular, she'd know by now, but it's been nearly a week, & no bad news or anything like that, so I'm sure she's clean. She doesn't seem like a girl who just sleeps with anyone, but likely a girl that is just very sexual. In any case, we've been talking more & more lately. I've checked with my friend on numerous occasions & he basically said if it happens, it happens, & he's not worried about it so if a threesome were to happen, or me just having sex with her alone, I don't think there'd be a problem. I'm glad for that, though, because I don't want any problems coming between us, especially one involving a girl. Now, we've been talking more & more lately, but usually just regular conversation. I'm pretty sure that the thought has crossed her mind before, & she strikes me as being a very open person, so maybe it'll happen, but it's a wait & see type of thing. All in all, I'm not too pressed about it to the point where I'm like "it has to happen." It's just an idea that crossed my mind, because my friend & I have discussed having a threesome before with a chick, but never really stressed the idea. Well, there's my little update.
I was going to say the mandatory, 'yeah, just warn him off her' type stuff but that is a quality solution that deserves a pat on the back. Throw that book of morales onto the fire, take a huff of that smokey after-scent, and go bugger his skanky as fuck girlfriend OR, perhaps ask her to braid your hair, that could be nice :coffee:
OP, Honestly? Stay away from this completely. Even if your friend did not express any upset because he is your friend, he might still feel something negative inside, and it's not worth it. Is it? Just wish them the best, stripper or not, and remind yourself that what she is, is actually none of your business. If she's flirting with you, fine. We're not gonna go for anyone who flirts with us, even when she is claiming our friends as their bfs, right? Don't get there, and everyone will respect you, and most importantly later in life, you'd remember this incident with a huge respect for yourself.
That's the thing, though, nobody in his family seems to really care for her. And I think that's always been the case, even when they were dating in the past. She told me a lot of shit last night, & really, it's not things you'd do if you loved someone. She claims to love him, & threesome ideas aside, I think she's amping up everything & overexaggerating everything. My friend thinks the same thing too, & he said he wonders if she's all nice & shit in person & is just talking down about him behind his back. Btw, haha, TIB, I should do that....afterall, she does know how to braid hair...and mine is currently down....hmmm....decisions, decisions....
