Hi, I am kind of new to this. I want to know what is the proper way to flirt with a hot guy. I am really feminine and I think like a woman too. I'm only attracted to masculine gay guys, but I always find that I have trouble getting thier attention. So far, I've only managed to get these kind of guys to let me give them blow jobs. I want more!!! I don't understand,I rub my ass all on their crotches on the dance floor, But it still seems like I'm having trouble getting guys. Is it because I'm mostly dressed like a woman? I have noticed that a lot of straight guys give me more attention and always seem like they want to dance with me more. Although, I don't mind that either. What am I doing wrong? Do I really not know how to flirt with a guy?
Most masculine dudes tend to be attracted to other masculine dudes. So, you are in for a bit of a rough ride here. There is no one way of doing it right. Every situation is different and so is every guy, you may be fancing at that moment. Try to signal your willingness and remember that it always takes two to tango. If a dude ain't into you, he'll give it a rain check... If he wants you, he'll let you know. KD
I really don't know too many people who are into those really femmy girly types. The whole point of liking guys is well, liking guys. Who wants to be seen with one of those wound-up flamboyant types? I personally would be embarrassed by that. What's more, I've always found those types to be really self-centred, needy and shallow... and to tell the truth, I think it would be practically impossible to form any sort of meaningful connection with them, either because they're so shallow, or because they would annoy the hell out of me. Too often they've managed to take all the worst aspects of women and amplify them, while having none of the good. On the other hand, it seems like the majority of gay guys are bottoms (or seem to think they are) looking for really masculine tops, erego masculine tops are in demand.