I meet this girl online who is 20 years old which is several years younger than me (I'm in my 30's) We mesh good. I have seen her four times and yet to as much as get a kiss. She has gotten angry and disapearded on me usually for a a few days twice already then pops back up like it's nothing. This last time she got mad she popped back up yesterday and started texing and talking to me. Then she says "oh I can't see you for 11 days because that's when my tests are for school and I have to study really hard reading these books" Now I still see her on this dating site and she has told me that she has only been dating a couple of years but it's usually seems by what she says to be older men and she told me almost bragging " I made 3 grown men cry I mean burly men bawl their eyes out" I'm like totally confused on whats going on is she just trying to use me or wtf? I mean if she didn't like me why not just leave me alone when she got mad and move on? I'm totally trippin. She is smokin hot and young which is of course what I totally want but I do not wanna invest a bunch of time to get screwed over. Any help would be welcome here
Sorry to be blunt but -I think you have to decide what you want from her (a) Sex, For a physical relationship - Keep in touch though at a distance and don't get too involved - Enjoy the flirting, wooing and uncomplicated status of a partnership which 'may' work (b) Lasting relationship - Forget it - cos it just aint gonna happen Good Luck
shes up to no good fooling with men's hearts.. she'll find herself dead that way fooling in the wrong beds with the wrong kinda dudes.. only takes one jealous person.. And boom head shot..
I guess that came off wrong but we get along good and I like her company as well. I just stated the obvious.
just ignore her for a while and continue talking to other girls and i guarantee that will get her attention.
Dude, she's a control freak. Being in my current stage in life I would say what the fuck you wanna mess around w/ a control freak like that who gets off on seeing grown men cry? I've seen plenty of girls like this and I can tell you that there's an extremely good chance that this girl has seen some level of abuse and has some serious hatred towards men. And very likely some repressed memories Think about that for a sec. what kind of person does shit like that. I mean what would you think of a 20 yo dude who said that he's been w/ a few older women and got them wrapped around his finger and has made them bawl their eyes out? Stay the fuck away from this one . Now on the flip side. When I was your age (in my 20's I actively pursued damaged goods like this one. The excitement was unreal and the partying and sex were even more so. So I understand your attraction. Would I do it again? Probably, but w/ very strong hesitation in allowing any kind of emotional interest in girls like her. If you're going to do this, keep your emotions in check. Unfortunately (?), in doing this she may loose all interest in you.
She's playing fucking games dude. Tell her to get lost. I had a 20yo just recently online pulled that crap with me. Not in the same way but girls that age (guys too for that matter) like to play games.
Anyone who brags about being able to make grown men cry is a fucking twat. She doesn't deserve to be called a woman. She sets equality back light years. Keep away for fuck sake! Do you want to be number 4?
She is getting off on her own pussy power. The only way to deal with a chick like this is to confront her asap and tell her that "yes bitch I want the pussy" and you can give it to me or not but if not, then get lost. If she chooses to get lost she will do so and respect you for calling her out, no matter how she chooses to mind fuck you for the way you handled her. You may get laid or she may call your bluff and split. If she does split you just saved yourself a headache. Don't look back. 50% of the time though, they will give ya a taste of the pussy in an attempt to hook you and try again with the games. Play your game not hers.
So I confronted her in a nice way but was real and this may be stupid or smart. I told her that I was starting to have feelings for her and that if she wasn't interested we could just be friends and I am actually ok with this but don't want to keep being led further down the path if it's not going to go anywhere. I told her that I had no doubt that she was dating other men and I didn't want to be one of 7 and chosen cause the other six bailed. I also told her that if she is mad to call me on it don't just disapear. I explained that I was fucked up by this bitch a few years ago that would play lil games and that my life as of now is really going good and I don't need any drama to fuck my shit up. She told me that she was interested and that she doesn't casually date(not sure if I beleive that) and also to take it date by date since we have only dated 4 times. She said that she doesn't know me well enough to be serious about me (we have been talking a month) but she isn't leading me on. She also told me that if this ever comes up again it's most likely a bad idea to ask somebody if they are going to fuck you over cause most will just lie though she was incere about being honest. Fuck I don't know what to think.