when a female says...

...I don't know how I feel about you, what does this mean? I think I may find out first hand this week but I've been thinking about this non stop since she first told me yesterday (or Sunday I don't remember) after I told her how I felt about her.

Now usually this wouldn't trouble me so much, but due to the fact that we went to both of our proms together, really connected, held hands, grinded all night, etc etc puts me in a reallly odd position. It would seem that her answer would be the same as mine seeing as we both had an amazing few nights together, but now I'm confused as fuck.

 

It means she hasn't decided what she thinks about you

OR she cannot decide whether or not you have murderous capabilities

 

I think it probably means one of two things:

1) You are in the dreaded "friend zone".

2) She likes you, but there have been a few "red flags" that she is having a hard time overlooking.

 

Well the first one is the blatant answer, but I've been lead on so much that I get paranoid of girls motives very easily. That and tooo much ganja over the years.

 

So you do murder people?

 

This.

 

Occasionally, a little bit of murder makes the world go 'round. But about the friend zone thing, which is also my biggest fear, I don't get why she would put me there as we got pretty intimate (without sex), and the intimacy was mutual. Other girls I've been friend zoned by either didn't allow it or didn't see too into it when I made advances.

 

Time to go sniffin' elsewhere if you asked me. She could not know what to think of you for months, and if that were the case it would suck having spent so much time pondering, when you could have been wondering.

 

Maybe she just has some mixed emotions right now about it. She might not know if she likes you yet. It kinda sounds like she does. Give it some time and then try talking to her more seriously, again!

 

Perhaps she is scared to allow herself to feel anything for you, or to act on those feelings.

 

heard the same shit

i think im in the friendzone...but im still gonna try and make moves...i dont fucking care.

i dont want to be hanging out with her as much as i have been anyways if she isn't interested in a relationship. sounds like a dick move, but you can't sacrifice your emotions for a girl that wouldn't do the same

 

Exactly, Purp

 

Man, I really hope this isn't a case of the friend zonies. I rarely get feelings for girls other than wanting to splack it(last time was around the fall), and the fact that she's going to be going to a college 15 minutes away from mine makes thigns sound like they could work out real well.

 

and it sucks.

stoner, i have been in this position so many times, like you. every girl that i actually feel something for does this...it's just how it is when a nice guy is interested in a blind girl. but if you think it's worth fighting for than it surely is...just don't sucker yourself in for a heartbreak. ya can't give your heart away if she doesn't want it.

haha yeah man, i know exactly how you feel

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhRMeiyret0"]YouTube- Love Stinks - Wedding Singer

 

I think #2 is quite possible. She might be interested but uncertain. A few red flags that she's working out. Either way, you'll likely know soon enough. Just be you, don't get too invested, and see what happens.

 

She doesn't want a relationship

 

Girls at 17 want adventure. They are looking for someone to take them out to movies, take them to cool fun parties, and invite them to hang out with 'more than just your buddies in the basement'.

They want to go to cool concerts and take silly photobooth pictures with their friends while they wear silly mustaches.

Trust me on this one. She isn't sure if you will nail her wings to the floor - or if you've got some excitement stashed up your sleeve some place. Maybe she's worried that all you want is sex - and she wants some fun before she falls head first into an official 'I'm dating him' status on Facebook.

You dig?

 

Idk if I still feel the same way about this girl. When I told her how I felt, I was pretty worked up with emotion but now as the days go by its kinda like ehh. I mean I still definitely do like her, and if given the chance I probably would still want to be in a rwlationship with her, but its not really that important to me anymore. I have a sneaking suspicion she's a closet freak, and I definitiely wanna hit it. I just don't know how i'd bring that up to her, seeing as I was the one who told her I had feelings for her in the first place. The only option that I'm afraid of is that terrible terrible friend zone with absolutely no kind of affection involved.

 

is she making an over-generalization about a gender with a thread title?

 

it means she's an indecisive fungus that you need to pick off your shoe and chew