When a friend admits that he is Bi Curious?

Have you ever had a friend admit that he is bi curious and that her would love to suck your cock? Did you allow it and did you return the favor?

 

In my world, if I were say something such as that to a friend, it would likely cost me that friendship.
I reckon my friends would not ask me (or anyone) for fear of being considered gay/bi/weird.

I wouldn't describe myself as bi-curious though. Cock-curious yes. I'd only be interested in watching him wanking, or perhaps wanking him and letting him reciprocate.
More to do with seeing how another guy does it (not like in porn but the real-life way) and perhaps to feel what it's like to be got off by a guy.
I've been told by a prev FB that it's a better, more intense, orgasm than going solo or with a woman.
However, I would described her interest in it as 'vested' because she wanted to watch us.

 

Yes, yes, and yes (because I suck cock, too) ... after I was sure that he was really curious and needed to suck my cock. I understand what it takes for a guy to say something like this to his friend and what the price to be paid is if speaking on this isn't accepted. So, such an admission is always taken seriously and gets talked about before dicks come out to be sucked. First question is usually, "Out of all the guys you know, why me?" and the conversation goes on from there and if I'm convinced that he's for real and that's because I've seen what happens to guys who think this is a "game" or it's not a big deal or it's not going to instantly change their life and then they find out that wanting to suck cock is some very serious and life-changing shit so, having experienced this, yeah, I want to be sure of him and once I am, we're going to have a good time sucking each other off.

And, sometimes, I've had a friend tell me this and ask if he can blow me and... I already knew it. Yes, I've had many guys say that sucking dick and being sucked is a more intense experience than jerking off or having sex with a woman...

 

I was lucky, I had some friends who became my partners. But I was young then.

 

A friend who knew I was bi but had never done anything with me called and said a friend of his wanted a blow job, he asked if he could watch, I was only too happy to say yes. I also informed him that I would be naked the entire time but they didn’t have to.

when they arrived I nervously answered the door completely naked and semi erect. It was a little uncomfortable for my friend but I was realizing that he might be really for something new.

We hung out and talked awhile which I found to be a real turn on and odd at the same time.
When it was time the guy stood up and pulled his cock out. I felt really self conscious with my friend watching but pretty soon he had his cock out in n his hand.

when the guy came I swallowed what I could the rest went on my face, my friend was stroking his hard cock. On my knees I moved towards him he stopped stroke my and let me take over without exchanging any words.

By the time he came my new friend was hard again and asked boldly if he could fuck me, yes was the only answer.

while he pounded me I stroked my cock till I shot my load in front of my friend.

 

I would say let's go!

 

I had a couple of friends of long standing. One of them used to make gestures jokingly, indicating sucking a cock, mine, without ever saying anything. I was busting to let him do it but I didn't want anyone finding out so I dismissed it. I knew he got a hard-on now and then, very obvious in his shorts, for no reason I could tell, and he used to go and pull himself off. Had we started, he and I would have spent a long time sucking each other, in hindsight I should have opened up to Him.

 

No, I'm not openly curious but I am.

I'm married and I don't have any friends that have made any suggestion.

I don't have any friends that I am attracted to but I would like to find a FWB to experiment.

 

It was a red flag to me, to have a friend I work with and see all the time, actually doing Bi stuff together. He made gestures that he wanted to see my cock and also suck me off, and he got horny just talking casually, and would run off to the toilet and pull himself off. Had I taken him up on His subliminal offer, everyone in our Air Force unit would have known, and they were mostly heavily homophobic.
The old cock sucker I knew said wisely, 'keep your casual friends list and your bi friends you play with as far separated as you can". He had friends who had no reason to think he sicked cocks. It would have been funny to see the reaction of these friends when, after he died, these friends went to clean out his apartment, and they found his wall full of polaroid photos of hard cocks he had sucked, his trophy collection. Mine was there somewhere. No names no ID. No faces but wall to wall hard-on's.
I found my suck buddies few as there were, on Adult Friendfinder.

 

I rarely got red-flagged by a guy who admitted to being curious; yellow-flagged? Sure and when he was the last guy I'd think would be curious about getting some dick. And, yeah, having been in the Air Force, I know how your unit buds can be a bunch of snitches and get OSI wanting to have a talk with you. I had friends who would and friends who wouldn't; there were friends I suspected were just as bi as I was but were hiding it and I had friends who surprised the shit out of me to confess their curiosity or they're offering to blow me and, sure, yellow-flag stuff but rarely red-flagged stuff - and then, in those rare situations, I just knew that homey was lying about being curious and this smells like a trap. There was the one guy who tried to blackmail me into sucking his dick by saying that he was going to tell my wife and I laughed and said, "Okay - tell her, but you won't be telling her anything she doesn't already know."

And he didn't get his dick sucked; removed from the friends' list permanently. Anyone else? Well, now, isn't this interesting! Let's see where he's going to go with this... and I will base my decision to go with it or not on what he has to say about being curious and, yeah, why is he telling me about it, hmm?

 

I'm cautious since my circle is small. But I feel like if you are able to tell me that, then you trust that I won't trip about it. So, no, i haven't had that happen to me. But I wouldn't trip. Would I allow them? Maybe.

 

It feels awesome!

Different from a woman's touch. (I'm not saying that women's or men's touch is better. Just different. I want both.)

Consider this...try to tickle yourself and then have someone else tickle you. You get vastly different results. I don't know what brain mechanism is at work, but it seems that the brain cancels out some of the sensation.

It's the same when you stroke your cock vs someone else (woman or man) doing it. Your brain won't be cancelling out any sensation! Also, a man doing it adds extra erotic energy because you're "breaking taboos" and because men's hands and styles are different so the sensations are a bit different too. End result? It's awesome!

I think every guy should swap handjobs with another guy. I'd bet it would open the door on a new world. But if you decided you don't like it, your opinion is at least coming from a place of experience.

 

I've had this thought: If a friend admits to you that he's bi-curious, what does that have to do with you? And why would it change your friendship when, just seconds ago, y'all were just fine and dandy? My experiences in this have been... sadly hilarious. I've confided in a male friend that I'm bisexual and he freaks out because the first thing that hits his mind is... I want to have sex with him and, most of the time, I wouldn't fuck him with someone else's dick; I like him but not enough to want to have sex with him. I've told guys who've reacted this way, "Don't flatter yourself - you're not that interesting..."

Guys are just weird like that. As such - and as I said before - I learned to not let such an announcement affect our friendship; if he's bi-curious, well, I know a little something-something about that and now it becomes a matter of why he's telling me this. Is he sharing this because he trusts me to know this or, as it sometimes turned out, he wants us to suck each other off? Either way, it's not going to affect our friendship unless he really does something to fuck things up between us.

And if him telling you this is going to mess up your friendship, you might want to ask yourself why because I'd suspect that he's not the problem.

 

Many years ago I had a close friend of mine admit he was gay. It didn't bother me, change my opinion of him or affect our friendship in any way. I was taken back when he told me that he always admired my cock from a distance, but he was wondering if he could get a closer look at it. I hesitated at first, but then agreed and proceeded to drop my pants. I stood there naked from the waist down as he hungrily eyed my cock. The next thing I knew he had his hand on my cock. He told me that he couldn't help himself and he would stop if it bothered me. It felt strangely good so I let him continue. He was examining my cock closely. It was somewhat like having a doctor's exam only a bit more erotic. I began to notice my cock getting semi hard. The next thing I knew he had my cock in his mouth. He felt me flinch with surprise and quickly withdrew my cock. He told me that he always fantasized about sucking my cock, but he would stop if I was put off by him sucking me. I was already getting aroused so I let him continue. I stood there as he slowly worked my cock with his mouth until it was fully erect. He continued at that rate, slipping as much of my cock as he could into his mouth, occasionally stopping his sucking to lick and circle the head with his tongue. After no time at all, my hips were moving in unison with his mouth. I was gently fucking his mouth as he gently sucked my cock. He could tell I was getting close and stopped for a second to tell me to cum in his mouth. Where my cum was going wasn't my concern, I was enjoying the blowjob immensely. All of a sudden I grabbed the back of his head, slid my cock as deep into his mouth as I could without choking him and started to violently cum in his mouth. I could tel, it was a good cum because I heard him gag on the first couple squirts before gulping it all down. We stayed friends and he blew me a few more times after that until he moved away. We stayed in touch after that and I never did reciprocate. Even if I would have wanted to, he told me that he didn't want anything sexual in return.

 

A co-worker found out I was bi and hinted around about bi sex but he was very nervous. I told him, no pressure k just come over and we’ll watch some porn and masturbate, maybe more maybe not, whatever you want.

That was the hedge he needed to start. He comes over regularly for blow jobs now.

 

No, but if I did..& he did...yes to both letting him suck me & me sucking him...and more if he desired it.

 

Yes, we was happy

 

I had a couple of friends who told me that they were curious, but they were also hesitant. I let them know that this is fairly normal and there's a bit of fear factor going on because thinking about doing this is one thing; being in the moment where you have to do it is something else and while some guys breeze right through this moment, some guys don't.

I had to tell one of those guys, "Look, I don't know what the problem is. You want to suck my dick and I'm happy to let you do that. You want me to suck your dick and I'm going to give you the best blowjob you've ever had. So, what's really the problem here? "Brenda's" (his wife's fake name) not going to find out (and I knew she wasn't going to say anything if she did because she was sleeping with my wife and he didn't know that) unless you tell her so... what do you want to do?"

I ended his curiosity and afterward, he was pissed because he waited all this time to do this. I just said, "Chill, man - it's nothing to get mad about, okay? If you passed on chances to do this before now, well, you've done it so what's next?" What was immediately next was us getting back in a 69 but with me on top this time. I didn't get to fuck him, but another guy did. Still, his biggest concern was whether or not we'd still be friends after having sex and I had told him that the only way I'd stop being his friend was if he gave me a reason to.

 

I've never been in this situation but if it were to ever happen, I would embrace the moment, so the experience is enjoyable for both of us.

 

Hi where are you from? I am very curious myself and have been dreaming of turning a man on with my thin sexy body and being bent over and fucked!