when a girl gets aroused what does it feel like?

not sure if i have ever been aroused so what does it actually feel like?

 

hey you..i'll let the girls answer that, but, have you looked into what we discussed before? which technicaly shouldnt effect arousal only sensation
but hey, heres a question for you that i shoulda thought of before, do you feel pleasure from your breasts being played with? you should be able to feel arousal from many types of stimulation..and from what youve told me i dont think your a true asexual incapable of arousal, it seems more like a sacral nerve dammage issue
arousal maybe difficult vaginaly due to the fact that youve never experienced natural sensation in the area, but you can test your ability to be aroused in other ways by stimulating other errougenouse zones like your nipples which should have normal sensation

 

very rarely. it kinda gets annoying, but then again i think that kneading them like bread rolls doesnt help!!! i have told him about this though but well he gets carried away with himself often and forgets.

 

lol yea alotta guys are clueless about how to touch breasts i meant yourself, not him, you can figure out for yourself what makes your breasts feel good try dufferent touches, kneeding them like bread never seemed it would feel good..lol but some girls with larger breasts do like it sometimes

but if you just do what feels right to you, do u feel aroused?

 

i cant touch myself, it makes me sick to even think about it!!so in answer to your question i havent got a clue as to how to try this idea out as i just cant touch them at all, none of it feels any different to me when i try

 

o yeah the butt plug thing, been tried i dont feel any different

 

soaringeagle - do what i feel right for me, do i feel aroused, thats the whole point i dont know what aroused feels like do i? i could be aroused for all i know but most times i dont feel any different

 

your problem seems so complicated
partialy physical but partialy psychological too

out of curiusity..do u get that sick feeling from seeing your naked body in a mirror/?

 

any tingling or excitement..any reaction from the nipples..i would love to get some female input here but i'm trying..

 

It feels like tingeling.

 

IT FEELS FUCKING AWESOME!

 

yes! hahaha

 

being aroused feels like being aroused It's hard to put any descriptors on it, other than I really want to be physical (not necessarily all the way, but at least kissing/groping/humping/something) with whoever I'm with. On my own, it's just an urge to masturbate, to hit orgasm and release that way... not really teh same.

 

theres a reaction but then theres no tingling or anything, they just get a bit harder and that it, but no sensation though,

sorry just woke up!!!

 

well a reactions a start maybe once your getting a reaction just take it a bit farther? see if u get any sensation?
i actualy think you may have a bit of a mental block thats somehow preventing you from experiencing the pleasure
when u sayyou feel sick at the thought of touching yourself (and your husbands clumsy pawing at you & being clueless reinforces the block)

 

yes but he says that i react in every thing to do with sex, he takes one half of those reactions as im enjoying it, i just dont get any feeling from it though.

 

i didnt explain very well did i? my body does this stuff . my vagina when he has a finger or two in me would move up and down etc but i have no idea of it doing that or even what he was doing to cause it to do it

 

and perhaps i do have a mental block about all of this but its a chicken and egg thing, if my body started working right then i would be able to get more into it but as it doesnt feel anything then i can get into it, so i dont do these things cause my body doesnt work right, huge big circle that i cant work through

 

he says..but hes cluless
it sounds alot ike he wants it his way always & even when it hurts you he doesnt change what he does.. youknow your issues pretty confusing to me but i think its partialy physical partialy psychological & partialy his inability to properly read signs & adjust how he touches you
i would like you to see a neurologist 1st to rule out a nervouse system problem since you do seem to have some loss of the pinprick sensation but that wouldnt affect the sensation in your breasts at all since the nerves that seem affected come from the very last vertebrae in the sacrum (which would also affect the butt plug sensation) try this.. a lighter touch or..better yet your vibe lightly circling your nipples.. pay attention to not only the sensations but your breathing & heartrate try to relax as much as you can & allow yourself to experience the sensations...i sorta feel like you tense up when touched like bracing yourself.. would that be fair to say?

 

we have used the vib before on my boobs, it just felt like it would if you put it on my hand!! buzzing! it doesnt feel nice it doesnt feel bad!

of course i tense up, cause i know that this is going to hurt sooner or later! again vicious circle! i know im probably causing the pain that way but when he hurts me again i have every reason to tense up, so next time that what i remember, he hurt me before so i get tensed up again. i cant get out of this and it drives me mad