When Do YOU Give It Up???

After the first date. A week, A month? When is it respectable to give it up????

Fellas & Ladies....let us know your thoughts!!!

 

its all about the chase!
ladies dont give it up to quick you got to tease....me likey

 

yea man...if it happens the first night, it happens, but my opinion about that girl would change drastically. Wondering if she does that everytime she goes out. I hate to think of that kind of stuff.


If i go along with it, its partly my fault too, so maybe she'd feel the same way about me.

 

After learning her first name is a good minimum time, that takes at least 15 minutes.
Each time is different.
Give it up when you want to, not before, not after.

 

I think it all depends on the chemistry...if I feel it on the first night, I'll do it then, if I don't...then I wait.

I know I don't have a set time. It happens when it happens. I go with the flow.

 

But thats what you say...
Dont act like God and say people should be damned if they have sex and are not in love..
I had sex with someone who I wasnt in love with before, so am I a bad person in doing so..NO!!!!

 

Thank you!! Let's not be judgmental here people. You can't tell anyone they're a disgrace for having sex and not being in love with that person.

 

uh, yeah, i think thats just you...
I dont regret it and it didnt make me feel bad at all..and I would do it again

 

I guess it depends who you are with and how things are going with them. I you feel yo have a good connection with them and it feels right, then go for it, but if you arent really sure then, save it for another time..

 

guess ya ran out of hookers to go to then, ay

 

Well yeah, that goes without being said. Sex is the MOST awesome when you're in love with that person. I'd definately RATHER have sex with someone I'm in love with. The downfall to that would be that the chances of me falling in love with anyone in the near future are VERY slim. Sex isn't dirty and disgraceful, not at all. Of course we all have had those one night stands and have gotten up the next morning thinking O M G..wtF was I thinking. It doesn't make us a disgrace, just human.

 

I tend to go along with what the lady wants. I was with my ex for two and a half years and we did nothing (it was frustrating but I put up with it because I loved her) but it was 4 months when my current girlfriend wanted to. I like to respect feelings rather than have sex.

 

hmmm I've waited 7 months and I've done it the first night I met someone. I can't say that there's a right time it's all about chemistry. I can't have sex without being in love though.

 

i dont know what it is about you, but i cant stand you...

 

who are you and what have you done with bogs...

 

Are you still talking...
dont tell me what I am or how I am, at least I am not making threads asking to house women to have my baby like you are..
please get a mental evaluation, it might help you out in the long run...

 

please dont ever call me that again, I have a username, use that one...

 

ill take the donkey

 

i think the best time to have sex with someone is when both of us know each other in every way, and feel comfortable around each other
ive been with my bf for almost 4 weeks now but i know it is not the right time yet there is so much more to discover
...and i like it how we kiss and explore our bodies with our hands just teasing each other.. do i want to miss out all the excitement? well definitely not

 

I try to bust those guts as soon as I can