K I had a blind date with this girl, and I ended up REALLY liking her!!! this was a couple weeks ago. Well, I am shy as hell, and did not make any "move" or anything. lol I never do, I always wait for the other person to. Dont' get me wrong I can make the second, third, fourth and so on.... no problem....but I can never take that first step. The other person has to first before I can do anything. So like a half hour later, after we parted ways....she text messaged me and wrote "why didn't you make the first move?" I wrote back "Well, I wasn't sure if you wanted me to...and I can be kinda shy..." then she writes back "Of course I wanted you to (gonna leave out what she said after that cause its personal lol)" I can't remember what I wrote back. But then I wrote "Why didnt' you?" and she wrote back "I'm extremely shy...." hehe shy except in text messaging I guess. So here's the thing: I like her, and I guess she likes me back yay lol. But when we talk on the phone, it is kind of awkward. We're both too shy I think. We have tentative plans to hang out again this comming weekend......and I'm like well I SHOULD make the first move right, kiss her if the opportunity presents itself? Cause she SAID she wanted me to....lol but I've never made the first move in my life. I forget what my question was lol......but how is two really shy women going to work out? I want it to....cause I had so much fun with her and she is HOT, so frikin beautiful, I'm actually wondering why she wants me really.....lol......but I dont' wanna screw this up if I get a second chance, I need to get over my fear of making "the first move" and just do it right? I think I just have an innate fear of rejection. I'm always sure if I move in the other person will hold their hand up in my face and be like "NO!" LOL
well....writing is sooo different than talking..thats why alot of net friendships dont last too long...anyway...its either u or her ....if u like her and want her badly...break the ice and do it!no one gonna do that for u....if u were waiting for her...may b u gonna wait a long time and nothing gain from that...as i said,,,,slap her...throw her on the bed (why FOLLOW when u can LEAD)!! u will never know if u never do it...and i think u know that too...!
it's really hard to give your first kiss I am currently with the first girl I ever kissed (I was kissed before but I never kissed) I was talking to her starting in november and planned to kiss her on Christmas (with some ghetto fake mistletoe :tongue: ) but then it didn't seem like she was on the same page as me, and when we hung out New Year's I had an open door to stroll in we hung out 4 times after that before our next kiss all and all - you just have to suck up your nerves, get your heads close together, (remember to open your mouth a little) and do it
just go slow, ease into it. when you two are walking, take her hand in yours. when youre saying goodnight or talking or whatever, speak facing each other, step in a little - if she doesnt move away, lean in and place a gentle kiss on her lips. you may want to gently touch her cheek/jawline with your fingertips, i personally find that to be terribly romantic and very gentle still.
