Who can I help on here, and how?

I dont know if this thread is going to be ignored or not, but I simply want to make a thread with the intention of offering my help.

If anyone has any issues they would like an unknown third party to help them wrap their head around, or anything of that nature, feel free to write here, or PM me.

I don't have all the answers, and I dont claim to be a shrink or a guru, but I've been through alot, and I've spent alot of time in my head, so maybe I can provide advice.

If there are any takers, I'll be around!

 

Aright cool brother

 

yea, send money

 

I was expecting this

 

Watch the baby while I cook supper.

 

This is going well, isn't it?

 

Bah - this is bound to be spammed lol!

But, ditto, I'm pretty good at helping people too. If you have any questions for a girl.

 

I need my back rubbed.

 

i need my balls drained...



....it's getting cold.. time to put my basketballs away for the season.. no reason to have air taking up more space than it should

 

Well, I'll ask for some help... I don't mind asking here and getting a few opinions on it.

My brother, as some of you know, got into a motorcycle accident last night...he gashed his leg up pretty bad.

This event wasn't what made me come to the realization, but it was definitely the event that pushed it into high gear...him and I aren't close at all. He is very very distant. He relies on his friends for everything and pretty much ignores my mother and I (unless he needs something).

We are two totally different beings, him and I. He lived here for a few months last winter and we fought like crazy. I tend to be a very peaceful, carefree, rational type of person. He is very high-strung, always-on-the-go, irrational type of person. We have VERY different outlooks on life and we follow different morals.

But how could I possibly get closer to him? I've seen him 3 times in the last 6 months-all of those times were under 20 minute visits. I'm at a total loss as to what to do...we tend to make each other crazy at times, but at the same time, he's my brother and I miss him often.

 

Why do you girls refuse to date me?

 

Try telling him that you want to have a relationship, that you know it's not always been easy between you, but you want to keep in touch.

 

ask him to get a beer and watch the game or somethin manly and not intimate

 

Haha yeah I guess it was kinda expected.

Maybe changing the sig pic wouldnt be a bad idea if you want to help people. It seems unneccesarly confrontative.

Do you WANT to be closer to him, or do you want to feel like you have a ''normal'' family?

Also, when you say ''I tend to be a very peaceful, carefree, rational type of person. He is very high-strung, always-on-the-go, irrational type of person.'', you make it seem like you are putting yourself on a bit of a pedestal. That may be pushing him away.

Alternatively, is it possible that when you guys fight, you are the one always modifying your behavior before things get too out of hand? As in you swallow your pride and ''forgive'' him or take the high road to keep from feeding the fire?

Has it ever happened that a girl was interested in you and you refused to date her?

 

I've tried doing that. He lives 45 min from here, but he never really wants me to go out and see him.

He puts his friends first. My mother is very sick and when I told him to go say hi to her while he was in the area, he said no and went to see his friend's mom instead.

He doesn't drink...or watch games. Haha. He goes to the gym and lives for his Harley.

I know it seems I put myself on a pedestal, but I was trying to give a drastic comparison of the two of us. We are very different people and we both have an insane temper.

I want to be closer to my brother. We are the only two kids in my family and we do share a lot in common...in the sense of both of us losing our father at young ages, both being very motivated, ambitious people. We just have different lifestyles.

Our relationship now is him coming over and getting some stuff (usually with a buddy), talking for 10 minutes about the weather, then him leaving.

I do tend to forgive and let arguments go easily. Its much easier than arguing with him because we just can't agree on some things.

I guess I'm just at a loss with this kid. I feel like we could learn a lot from each other and we have no other siblings or relatives that we even like for that matter...its just hard since we're both on different wavelengths.

 

I think my sister feels the same way about me. Except I think she is the crazy irrational one in this situation. Then again, maybe she thinks I am...

I'm not very close to my sister either on a day to day basis, but I know that if ever she's in real trouble or vice-versa, we'd pull through for each other. Is it like that with your bro? Do you think maybe it's normal between brothers and sisters? Maybe others reading this can provide their own experience...

 

Yeah, we are like that. And I'm assuming he does think I am the crazy, irrational one hahaha. At least I'm not the only one who has this kind of relationship with their sibling.

But last fall, when I had the miscarriage, he came right to the house and we sat and talked about it. His exact words were "we'd take care of that child." Made me feel good to hear him say that.

 

Would you watch my glass of chocolate milk please.

I need to to run a few errands.

 

here's some chocolate cake to go with your glass of chocolate milk

 

I need someone to explain to me how I can have a G spot orgasm, it's just not happening for me My boyfriend must be doing something wrong, or maybe there is something wrong with me(