I just wonder do you do it just for fun, or maybe you don't have sexual partner, or maybe you have -but he/she is not near or impossible to have sex because of several reasons: parents, study.. etc.. I just want to know.. 'cause I have seen here many threats about masturbation and became pretty curious. Personally, I do masturbation 'cause it's very rarely when we have situation for having sex. I mean I do it when I miss my boyfriend very much and when there is no way to be with him sexually. After being together there is sometimes even 2 weeks without masturbation. In that period I live with that warm feeling and pleasure, that he gave me while sex. So, I don't need masturbation then. Let's about you!
I do it 'cause I'm horny and there's nobody to satisfy me. I do it 'cause I get bored. I do it 'cause it's fun and feels good.
I masturbate even when I have a partner. I can have sex and sometimes I'll still masturbate later. I do it because: I want to It feels good I'm bored It's a way of being with someone without actually being with them.
I do it for several reasons as well.. I want to get to sleep easier. Because it feels good.. It is fun?? It amuses me.. It makes me happy.. ?? hahaha because my coochie is wonderful. bordom.
i masturbate because i'm a nympho of sorts i'm similar to Orgazmik in that i'll masturbate *after* sex from time to time because once i get turned on, it is difficult to turn me off! *blushes* ok, on record days, i've masturbated as often as 8-9 times.
Excatly like this,i will masturbate before sex and after,anytime,its not that if i do sex i will be ok,i can cum and then after 5 min i will be erected again!
I can add another reason: Masturbation is NECESSARY to maintain good health -- sexually and emotionally. The sex drive is a force of Nature that cannot be suppressed; it has to have an outlet. And masturbation is the safest sexual outlet there is. That was essentiually the message of former U.S. Surgeon General Joyceline Elders, who got hounded out of office by the puritanical Christian neo-fascists. I'll never forgive President Bill Clinton for not having the backbone to stand up those zealots and vigorously defend Dr. Elders, for she dared to speak the truth about sex that the Chrsitian Right doesn't want anybody to hear. -- Skeeter
puritanical Christian neo-fascists??? I've never heeard that neo-fascists could be christian people.. WooW.. I'm very sorry about her On the other hand, it's well known that to do masturbation often is not good for health both for women and men. Men can't get erected easily and women can't achieve orgazm easily. Also you know there are two kinds of orgazm: vaginal and.. am.. "clitoral" or how to say I don't know.. I think you get me what I mean.. I mean outside and inside orgazm So, while masturbation people more often "work" for outside orgazm, and it's became difficult to achieve inside orgazm. 2 of 3 women can't get setisfied inside. Maybe someone don't has any effect of his/her sexual life because of often masturbation, but those people are very very few.
puritanical Christian neo-fascists??? I've never heeard that neo-fascists could be christian people.. WooW.. I'm very sorry about her On the other hand, it's well known that to do masturbation often is not good for health both for women and men. Men can't get erected easily and women can't achieve orgazm easily. Also you know there are two kinds of orgazm: vaginal and.. am.. "clitoral" or how to say I don't know.. I think you get me what I mean.. I mean outside and inside orgazm So, while masturbation people more often "work" for outside orgazm, and it's became difficult to achieve inside orgazm. 2 of 3 women can't get setisfied inside. Maybe someone don't has any effect of his/her sexual life because of often masturbation, but those people are very very few.
I don't masturbate, instead I rip my penis into tiny bits and... No just kidding. On the serious note though, the main and only reason is because of lack of any sexual partners.
I've got a boyfriend who is damn good at what he does, but we're still working through some mental blocks before I can actually come to an orgasm with him. And he likes to tease the hell out of me because he gets a thrill out of knowing he's caused something I have to fix myself once he's gone. That's pretty much why I do it. Because my boyfriend gets me hot right before I have to go home, hehe. What a bum.
have you ever thought of doing it in front of him? that's a good way to lower your barriers and let him be a part of you intimacy... maybe it'll be easier to cum afterwards. greg
Holy Cow!!! That beats my record! I tend to do it more often when I am not with a partner. I mean, If I am getting it daily form a partner I don't masturbate at all. I also do it if I am having trouble sleeping. Also, If I have sex on my mind and have to be focused on something else, masturbation helps relieve me of some of my testosterone and allows me to focus on something else. If I'm bored I do it too. I've also had girlfriends who like to watch me do it. Heck, I sure don't mind!
I would say I masturbate about anything and everything. I have so many turn- ons that I could never actually achieve my fantasies any other way.