Why are you masturbating?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Ursula Buendia, Jul 3, 2005.

  1. Ursula Buendia

    Ursula Buendia Member

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    I just wonder do you do it just for fun, or maybe you don't have sexual partner, or maybe you have -but he/she is not near or impossible to have sex because of several reasons: parents, study.. etc..
    I just want to know.. 'cause I have seen here many threats about masturbation and became pretty curious.
    Personally, I do masturbation 'cause it's very rarely when we have situation for having sex. I mean I do it when I miss my boyfriend very much and when there is no way to be with him sexually.
    After being together there is sometimes even 2 weeks without masturbation. In that period I live with that warm feeling and pleasure, that he gave me while sex. So, I don't need masturbation then.
    Let's about you! :)
     
  2. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    I do it 'cause I'm horny and there's nobody to satisfy me.

    I do it 'cause I get bored.

    I do it 'cause it's fun and feels good.
     
  3. 2cool

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    Same ^^^.
     
  4. Ursula Buendia

    Ursula Buendia Member

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    So, turns out that you do it 'cause there is no one to please you, right?
     
  5. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    I masturbate even when I have a partner. I can have sex and sometimes I'll still masturbate later. I do it because:

    I want to
    It feels good
    I'm bored
    It's a way of being with someone without actually being with them.
     
  6. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    I do it for several reasons as well..


    I want to get to sleep easier.
    Because it feels good..
    It is fun??
    It amuses me..
    It makes me happy.. ?? hahaha
    because my coochie is wonderful. ;)
    bordom.
     
  7. Nolan14

    Nolan14 Member

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    yup
     
  8. Hippievixen

    Hippievixen Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    i masturbate because i'm a nympho of sorts :)

    i'm similar to Orgazmik in that i'll masturbate *after* sex from time to time because once i get turned on, it is difficult to turn me off!

    *blushes*

    ok, on record days, i've masturbated as often as 8-9 times.
     
  9. Wicked Penetration

    Wicked Penetration Member

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    Those two work, pretty much at the same time, too lol
     
  10. nude_flower

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    Excatly like this,i will masturbate before sex and after,anytime,its not that if i do sex i will be ok,i can cum and then after 5 min i will be erected again!

     
  11. SkeeterVT

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    I can add another reason:

    Masturbation is NECESSARY to maintain good health -- sexually and emotionally. The sex drive is a force of Nature that cannot be suppressed; it has to have an outlet. And masturbation is the safest sexual outlet there is.

    That was essentiually the message of former U.S. Surgeon General Joyceline Elders, who got hounded out of office by the puritanical Christian neo-fascists. I'll never forgive President Bill Clinton for not having the backbone to stand up those zealots and vigorously defend Dr. Elders, for she dared to speak the truth about sex that the Chrsitian Right doesn't want anybody to hear.

    -- Skeeter
     
  12. Ursula Buendia

    Ursula Buendia Member

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    puritanical Christian neo-fascists??? I've never heeard that neo-fascists could be christian people.. WooW..
    I'm very sorry about her :(
    On the other hand, it's well known that to do masturbation often is not good for health both for women and men. Men can't get erected easily and women can't achieve orgazm easily. Also you know there are two kinds of orgazm: vaginal and.. am.. "clitoral" or how to say I don't know.. I think you get me what I mean.. I mean outside and inside orgazm :) So, while masturbation people more often "work" for outside orgazm, and it's became difficult to achieve inside orgazm. 2 of 3 women can't get setisfied inside. Maybe someone don't has any effect of his/her sexual life because of often masturbation, but those people are very very few.
     
  13. Ursula Buendia

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    that was my reason too while I was smaller :) It works better than pills
     
  14. Ursula Buendia

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    puritanical Christian neo-fascists??? I've never heeard that neo-fascists could be christian people.. WooW..
    I'm very sorry about her [​IMG]
    On the other hand, it's well known that to do masturbation often is not good for health both for women and men. Men can't get erected easily and women can't achieve orgazm easily. Also you know there are two kinds of orgazm: vaginal and.. am.. "clitoral" or how to say I don't know.. I think you get me what I mean.. I mean outside and inside orgazm [​IMG] So, while masturbation people more often "work" for outside orgazm, and it's became difficult to achieve inside orgazm. 2 of 3 women can't get setisfied inside. Maybe someone don't has any effect of his/her sexual life because of often masturbation, but those people are very very few.
     
  15. Gats

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    I don't masturbate, instead I rip my penis into tiny bits and...

    No just kidding. On the serious note though, the main and only reason is because of lack of any sexual partners.
     
  16. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    I've got a boyfriend who is damn good at what he does, but we're still working through some mental blocks before I can actually come to an orgasm with him. And he likes to tease the hell out of me because he gets a thrill out of knowing he's caused something I have to fix myself once he's gone. That's pretty much why I do it. Because my boyfriend gets me hot right before I have to go home, hehe. What a bum.
     
  17. Ursula Buendia

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    Blah there is one problem (out of theme). Can you see my yesterday's posts??
     
  18. kissMeImPolish

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    have you ever thought of doing it in front of him? that's a good way to lower your barriers and let him be a part of you intimacy... maybe it'll be easier to cum afterwards.
    greg
     
  19. FeelinGroovy

    FeelinGroovy opposable thumb

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    Holy Cow!!! That beats my record!

    I tend to do it more often when I am not with a partner. I mean, If I am getting it daily form a partner I don't masturbate at all.

    I also do it if I am having trouble sleeping.

    Also, If I have sex on my mind and have to be focused on something else, masturbation helps relieve me of some of my testosterone and allows me to focus on something else.

    If I'm bored I do it too. I've also had girlfriends who like to watch me do it. Heck, I sure don't mind!
     
  20. rachelberries

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    I would say I masturbate about anything and everything. I have so many turn- ons that I could never actually achieve my fantasies any other way.
     
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