Breaking up is never easy even when it's a good one. You're losing your familiar.. your companion.. your changing your whole life around. It's tough to let go of that which is safe and secure even if it's not really either of those two things. But when you get over the initial shock of it it strengthens you and prepares you for your future ahead. Don't worry my friend.. it'll get better as time passes.
If our ancient, evolving ancestors hadn't felt extremely strong when the person we love beyond reality is not around or has completely rejected us than the species would have never continued and love wouldn't have become as profound as it truly is. There are profound chemical changes sucreeted into the brain during real love. Oxytocin, neureponephrin, dopemine, PEA, vasopressin, adrenaline, and many other subtle chemicals--This is where it gets cool. Because those chemicals are sucreeted into the brain as a result, every single other cell in the body forms receptors to process the influx of chemicals. The brain becomes accustomed to the new bio-chemical changes and new neuro-connections (brain cell connections) are formed as a response. So our brains are rewired. Every cell in our bodies are changed for the purpose of loving the person who seems to be around more than other people. The brain is truly balanced when the real thing is present. What your body and brain need to do now is form new receptors based on other experiences. Over time your brain will rewire itself based on the new stimulations and chemical responses. When another person comes along the cells will attune to their "frequency" as well. There's also a chance of reconnecting with the person if you can learn to truly let go because if you're not communicating out of basic love there wouldn't be a gap in communication. There's a balance when there is no future image and you can not touch the person for as long as you can sometimes. They are your friend anything else is just an extrapolation of that energy. There is no "relationship" actually, it is the "real love" between two focused, concenting , aware people that has no past or future or distortion of any kind. Only the verbal connection can always lead back to other, physical kinds of experiences and carressing and all that beautiful stuff. But yeah, if it's gone that means there were images of an ideal vision of love and not the pure reaction in every moment.~Peace~
