Why is it

women can't handle being treated right? They can't handle things going well. Maybe it's people in general, but I'm not into guys so I wouldn't really notice.

 

Wow... I MUST be insane because being kind and considerate has worked nicely for me. Maybe they've been playing me?

 

women want passion

we'll take it over mediocre kindness any day. Passion swings both ways, good and bad. Its just that usually the passionate guys are somewhat unstable. One day they are loving you to death, the next they're passionately mad at you which can inspire some bad behavior on their part. Even with the bullshit, its still better than some guy who's love borders on indifference. Hard to explain. Nice guys aren't necessarily boring but it just feels like they would be that nice to anyone sitting where you are sitting. It doesn't have anything to do with you...makes you feel less special. (tho that may not be how it is, thats how it can feel)

Ok, I'm rambling....I dunno. Take from it what you will

 

No that is valid... like women want to be good enough to make mr. angry jackass treat them special... like you were able to tame the beast so to speak...

interesting...

 

Thank you.......that made more sense to me than you know.

 

Yeah, but in private, they are nice because they want to get laid, so the woman then feels like she is special... Once they get bored of the gal or get too used to her, then the asshole takes over and runs her off...

 

LOL there is hope for you.

 

anyway...

women nuture, we like feeling needed. it some deeply biological shit mixed in there. I remember picking so-called "assholes" when I was young. Sooner or later, I got tired of the bad shit but to this day a good portion of them would kill to have me back. Meaning that I was special to them in some way but they were too fucked up to see it or express it properly. Its about choosing what you will deal with.

And to be completely real, sometimes the girl wins. She puts up with the shit and hangs on and the guy starts to see that as special. Just depends on how bad he is if its worth it

 

That I can't agree with. If I want pussy, I get pussy..... when I want a person I get fucked.

 

I don't care what you believe. Lets say I don't get pussy when I want it. I don't give a fuck about it. Oh, boo-hoo... I didn't dip my stick tonight. Fuck that. Pussy is all the same after a while anyway. Some good, some bad, all wet.

Losing out on somebody I really like is what gets my goat because that's the hard part is finding somebody to connect with. Any idiot can lower his standards enough to get laid.

 

What have you heard?

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Ummm, since I've been dating Ashley I've refrained from taking girls home on weekends, and the two of us decided we're going to wait to sleep together.

Oh and before anybody makes any jokes about her getting it elsewhere, she's either with me or on the phone with me all night. Thanks.

 

wow...i don't know how to respond to that...so wrong is so many ways. say that to a rape victim and i hope they slice your throat open.

 

you did not just say that

holy fuck
Have you ever been raped? Wath the fuck makes you think you're qualified to talk about a rape victims feelings? About hte guilt htey carry, the burden of dealing with that for the rest of their lives? And you dare to fucking label it as pleasure, as them loving it? GO TO HELL

 

I talked to this dumbass broad for a while that kept insisting that 'perspective was everything'. I'm going to take a shot in the dark and say that this could be a case where perspective may be the problem. The reason she is not taking well to the super-nice treatment you're offering is that she doesn't want it. From what I've read of what you've posted about this girl, it sounds like she is content having a friend that she doesn't have to worry about falling in love with her, at least for the moment. Even if you see things going well and progressing nicely into a trusting, loving, and erotic commitment, she may think things are perfect where they are and have no desire to take things any further. If she thinks your actions are signs that you want things to progress that way she isn't going to take well to them, even if you are doing them with the most innocent of intentions.

Two minds are never one. Straight and simple, ask her about it.

 

i've never taken well to being treated badly. it makes me cranky and evil. i get inventive with my vengeance. i tend to humiliate people in public. therefore i avoid people who treat me badly. i like to be nice. well, to a degree. i don't wanna be boring, but i hate destroying people's lives.

 

she's selling a LOOK at the body for money. sounds practical to me. people are gonna look anyway. she might as well get paid for it.

 

but only loaned for a lookie. you'll still have to buy the dvd later.

 

Ok. I really haven't been completely clear on the situation, so here's what it is. She's not my girl because she's not ready to be with somebody. We're more than friends, but not committed. She's already told me she's done dating other guys because the only good time she's had is with me. She's into me as much as I'm into her. She just got out of a fairly bad relationship though and isn't wanting to be tied down right now, which I'm ok with. I just wanted her to be honest with me about what she wants. When it started out she'd go on a date, come home call me, and laugh and joke about how badly it went and tell me how much she'd like to go out with me again. Last night she was supposed to stay the night with me and told me she couldn't because she had to babysit today. Right before she dropped me off she told me she lied and was going to a party... As she's using my phone to call for directions. . . All she had to do was tell me she wanted to hit this party up and I would've told her to have fun and seen her next weekend. It's like she had to test the waters or something.

 

Well when you think about it strp clubs and movie theaters are the same principle. Have a seat, and enjoy the show. Besides, they're not taking her home, I am.