Why nice guys finish last - According to a woman

I've said before that being uninterested and an ass is generally a better way to get women than being nice.

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In a woman's words, it's confirmed. So for all you nice guys who get no play..... don't believe women when they tell you it's not you. It is you.

Not that you're a bad person. You're just not quite datable for most women.

Enjoy.

 

just one woman's opinion, but i've observed that the Nice Guy debate is a favorite among assholes.

 

That author looks like a tranny.

 

that was all pretty much common sense.

 

what? i know plenty of guys that are nice AND confident. just because you're a "nice guy" doesn't mean you can't be confident and exciting.

 

And this explains why divorce rate is so high.

 

No, the lack of follow through and sense of entitlement that has plagued every generation since the baby boomers explains the high divorce rate.

This explains why the average guy doesn't get laid.


And telephone, being nice and fitting the "nice guy" stereotype are two different ideas completely.

 

I'm neither an asshole, nor boring.

Suck on that, some bitches thesis.

 

But like most of the "good ones" you are gay.


Such a shame.

 

nice guys who finish last do so because they let women/people walk all over them

 

The way I see it they lay down in the path of women hoping to be walked on.

 

It doesn't help if he's an asshole.... relationship wise and "getting laid" wise.

Most guys have no idea how to treat woman.... the examples I've seen is what has made me choose to give up on relationships. Dated nice guys and assholes... all of it is a waste of time.

 

I just do it because I have a foot fetish. :biggrin:

 

well that explains why I never understood "nice guys finish last." I didn't realize that "nice guys" are also understood to be boring and lacking confidence.

 

Knickers

 

@ jess: That was more bitter ranting than addressing my point, and even still you know as well as I do that the nicest of your friends are generally the lonliest.

@ telephone: You know the general type I'm talking about.

 

I'd say it's about the same as the ones who are assholes. Just about everyone I know jumps from relationship to relationship....

 

Who got more play, John or Jason?

I already know the answer.

 

Bad example... Jason only messes with girls he has feeling for.... and to be honest John didn't get much play... cause he was a major asshole.

 

Yes, no one likes desperation or insecurity.

A guy who tries too hard is automatically a turn off.

Yet, girls do like pricks though... I've noticed that the girls that I've ignored the most are the ones who keep on wanting me more and more.

I was the typical nice guy when I was younger and tried way too hard, and now I see that girls found it as a turnoff. It's all about confidence.

Yet you also need to show a small amount of interest, even if it's just holding their stare for a second too long.