I recently cast a sort of revenge spell.. long story short, Im still mad at my ex so I want her to fall for me again and I can take advantage of that to make her life a living hell , anyhow it's been a while and I see no results..how long it's suppose to take for a spell of that kind to work. still works if u dont believe it will. that was my last resort
"The best revenge is to live well." I forget who said that. Here's another good one: "If you want to walk the road of revenge, start by digging two graves." Well, that's not the exact quote, but it's close enough. Living for revenge isn't much of a life, JCFN. And anyway I don't think your spell is going to work--you're sending out mixed and confused energy. You want her to love you because you hate her? That's like sitting on a bicycle backwards and trying to pedal forward. You just end up falling off the bike. She already caused you enough grief--why let her continue to rule your existence? Why not forget about the bitch and have some fun instead? Think about what would make a fulfilling life for you--something you can wholeheartedly believe in--and channel your energy in that direction. I'll bet it will work a lot better than your spell.
Actually, it doesn't work if you don't believe. If you are doing any magical working, doubt cannot play a part in your mindset. Always remember when dabbling that whatever you put out into the universe, you get back threefold. Anything done with ill intent or in an attempt at manipulation will have adverse effects. Forgive and forget. It'll benefit you in the end.
Karma will bite you in the ass! I promise you this. Do not let your heart and your energies be consumed with negativity. Obviously your ex hurt you bad enough for there to be pain. Dont let the pain manifest anger. You were meant to have that experience so embrace it, figure out what you have learned and let the negative fealings go. I am not saying to ignore them, just embrace them, recognize them and let them go. Realease the emotion of your physical being, "cut the cords" as some people will say and you will feal the difference. If you practice meditation that is a good time to cut the cords. Just invision actual cords coming from your ex and connecting to your body. Picture your energy flowing through these "cords" and vision all the negative thoughts and energies consuming the cords which are still connected to you. Say outloud or in your head that you are realeaseing or cutting the cords of these negative energies and that you want no part of them anymore. (This is just like a grounding practice. except for instead of grounding yourself to the earth, you are disconnecting yourself from someone or something that is pulling vital life energy from you.) This will work I promise. Let me know how it goes........
I'm an empath, and I do this after doing picture readings for people, so I can "detatch". It does work when I'm focused on it.
Just to put in my two cents: I'm studying to be a wizard. And one of the 'rules' of wizardry is: Intention controls Results. If you did cast a spell, the Intention was set during the spell. If you begin to doubt your spell later, you weaken the intention the powers the spell, and therefore weaken the spell. However, I do believe in karma and the threefold rule, so be careful when doing things with ill intent. If you're willing to accept the consequences, then by all means, cast on. However, is it really worth it for just one person? I don't think so. I know that the only time I would ever cast a spell with 'ill-intent' would be someone that I know personally that has ever murdered, raped, or molested any infrior being. That is because I personally believe that those three 'sins' are unforgivable and deserve a swift and just consequence. The choice is yours, my friend, but always be mindful of the consequences of an action before performing said action.
Unforgiveable, yes, but how is it your place to be the one to pass down any judgement? If you believe that karma is real, then you know that they will get waht they deserve in the long-run.
Yeah, I know.. but this is just my kind of moral belief, not something I want others to believe in.... I don't think it's my place to pass down that judgement, I'm just the kind of person who believes that those acts deserve a swift punishment.... Again, just my moral belief on it... I understand how karma and the threefold rule would affect me if I were to do such a spell, however, I'm the kind of person who would accept the responsibility of my actions, which is why I don't hex any mundane that irks me....
I can understand a want for swift punishment. I can even believe in wanting to make sure it happens, but I am sorely aware of the ramifications of doing it myself. I like that knowledge because it keeps me in check. After all, I think that there are a lot of times when you look back on things a month or two (or maybe a year or two...) down the line, and you don't feel as hurt as you did. And doing something that could hurt them would probably make you feel bad as well, in the long run. JMHO. Glad you don't hex.
updating it worked,even though I didnt believe it was going to..so I dont know..I guess I'll be getting my karma soon or next life.
LOL JCFN, you are a trip. Well buddy, now that you have her, what are you going to do with her? You know, you could take this opportunity to just enjoy the love...do you suppose? F-ck the karma. If you have her where you want her, why waste this opportunity on something as painful as revenge? Are you hip to my jive...
Well..honestly gizmo, now that "I have her", I don't feel like causing her any harm, just feels good to be in control of the situation and I think is even some sort of closure to me... I really needed this. we've been talking about our feelings but I just realized I couldn't be with her without hurting myself and I care about her to much to do anything out of revenge..maybe I just wanted her to feel what I once felt for her.
it was a love spell, I used some rose,lavanda,my pillow..something written in a piece of paper, including our names. Somebody gave me the ingredients and the stuff in the paper..I just had to go home and put everything inside my pillow and that was it.. as soon as I started doubting about the spell and you guys told me about the karma I got scared and thought it wasn't worth it..I took everythin including my pillow and threw it away..just a few days later my ex called me saying she didn't know what was going on..but she couldn't stop thinking and dreaming about me, she also told me she feels like she needs to talk to me, she has someone in her life now, however she takes time to call me and tell things she didn't even told me when she was with me. now I see the whole thing as a pathetic act of desperation I shouldn't have done in the first place, but as I said before..I needed closure. peace everyone..and be carefull with what u wish
Sounds to me like you got what you really wanted--maybe that was your real intention all along, and the spell gave you your intention? Now in retrospect, it seems good that you did what you did.
des10e...hey, des10e! What are you doing with that pillow??? Hmmm...maybe I'll put some stuff in MY pillow, too...
Yeah, maybe so, zengizmo... Maybe your change of heart also changed your karma. I'm glad the situation has worked itself out, though.
LOL... I was just curious. If you read my email, you know I've got my hands full already. Haha. I can mix you up a concoction for your pillow.
