why are women so terrible to eachother?I have seen so many posts on here like "i hate men" "why are all men assholes" and that such bullshit. i feel though, that the real question to be answered is why are women assholes? now let me explain. i moved here 5 years ago. Since then, there is this one girl who has had it out for me for ABSOLUTELY no reason.like she literaly saw me on the first day of school and decided to hate me. she was the "hot girl" in school. not hot like a cheerleader but the girl that is a complete whore and thats why she is hot. my frist boyfriend i had, she took him from me after 5 months.not such a big deal anymore, this was 5 years ago. well then i got together with my current boyfriend and for the first 3 years of our relationship she fucked with him behind my back.calling him, telling him she missed him, hanging out without me knowing.all while she was supposed to be my friend.holy shit i even got this guy she really liked to go out with her and they were together for 3 years. well last november she finally got what she wanted.he broke up with me and we were split up for about 7 months.in that time they had sex twice. well, after this he finally decided he didnt want anything to do with her ever again. we are back together now and happier than we have ever been with our relationship. here is my issue. why WHY WHHYYYY do women do this shit? why would you go for a guy that has been with a girl since they were fucking 15 years old? why would you want to break something like that apart? women have enough problems with men as it is without back stabbing cunts going after the one good guy you have found.and for no reason other than to piss you off.thats it. she never really cared for him, she didnt want a relationship. this girl,is a cold shell of a human. she doesnt care about anyone at all.i know this because i was her friend for a long time and i tried to get past the immature bullshit and just let the past be the past.then they had sex and this is just not something im willing to let go. now most people would say well "you are mad at the wrong person". but my boyfriend and i have since faced our demons and delt with them.this is about her.and how everytime im am around her i feel terrible. i feel insecure and ugly,and fat and just shitty.she knows this and its exactly what she wanted out of the whole thing. was simply to make me feel like shit. i truely do not believe i deserve this. im obsessed with it now though. its pathetic really. i cant be around her and have not been because i honelsty feel that if there isn't a metal barrier between us, i will kill her.i will murder the bitch. i dont know how to deal with this. i dont want to obess over someone i hate and i dont want to feel bad around her because i know that im a better person.i dont want to deal with this anymore,it is painful to me and ruins my day every time.i just want to be at peace with it, enjoy my relationship,and not give a shit about her.but i feel like i was hurt too badly to just let it go.i dont know how to deal with it anymore.any advise? [i may have posted this in the wrong place,im not sure. i felt like it was a relationship issue though so if its not in the right place,im very sorry]
but i don't. even after she had already fucked me over numerous times i still tried to have faith in the fact that everyone is human.now i know that everyone is human except her. in fact i love women and most that i find more attractive than i am, i don't hate them, or get jealous, i admire them and given the right situation, i share the love...if ya know what i mean.
I was always a tomboy so I dont get it either. unfortunately I don't have but maybe 2 close female friends for this reason, and their both older (which sometimes means more mature). It sucks but I don't know why some girls are like that. I'm not like that. I hate it. And I hate when they talk trash about someone and then turn to you and wait for your response. That is sooo uncomfortable, especially if you don't want to talk trash or have any trash to talk!
this is indeed one of life's great mysteries. my theory is that most girls are just sadistic bitches; they'll hurt whoever they can to make themselves feel slightly better, but other girls tend to take it more seriously so they're a little more likely to target each other just because it's a little meaner that way
^^ its called the drama queen syndrome, they gotta have drama or they get bored. I learned to avoid those types of chicks. Its hard sometimes since there's so many out ther just looking for 'booty' and to mess with guys heads to get their egos off or to score coke and shit (and if you got coke you can get anything from them ones...). The good ones are usually shy and hard to find but they're out there, like my gf who would never cheat on me.
I don't understand it either...... I have always been the girl that is one of the guys because i don't really relate to the other drama queen girls...... idk this is the most recent and first real girl drama in my life this girl(that i've known since we were like 12) broke up with her boyfriend and I liked both of them at the time..... so I was kind of consoling them both because it was a pretty bad breakup and I felt bad..... so one night, my boyfriend and I went to a concert with her ex and the next day she was telling people that the only reason he was with me was because i was fucking him, i am not a woman because i don't wear makeup, i am a whore, i am a lesbian......pretty much like anything she could do to make me sound bad.... and then she started trashing me to my boyfriend (and they were pretty good friends too), but being the amazing guy he is, he defended my honor and let her know how stupid she was being..... so then she apologized to him.... started hanging out with his ex girlfriend and continued doing the same thing.... and now i just feel bad for her because she really has no life but she pretty much made my last 6 months of highschool a dramafest..... all i was trying to do was console her......... i already didn't like hanging with girls because of drama....but now I am super afraid because I thought she was my friend ..... but apparently because I don't hate someone just because she broke up with him I am a terrible person.... UGH seriously.... I HATE those drama bitches
Its because its in our natural to be hardcore bitches to thoughs who wont listen to us. Or we are just in the mood to pick a fight and get into a big ass rumble
this is exactly what im talking about. i just spoke to someone who was her friend recently (is not anymore) and she said that in highschool she would sit at the lunch table with kayleigh(thats my friend) and would just point guys out and say "im gonna fuck him" and kayleigh would be like "well, he has a girlfriend i dont think its gonna happen" and this girl would just be like "i dont care im going to anyways,im prettier than she is". im not passive in anyway...im going to tear this bitches face off. not for myself, but for all the other girls she has and is continueing to do this to. because no one will stand up to her. she just happens to be terrified of me(she thinks im insane).so im just going to do everyone a favor.
