Women problems

I posted a moment ago to a fellow hippy about women problems, so I thought I’d write about my own. Maybe someone out there can give me a hand with this.


I’ve had it rough with women. But I still try to be nice to them as individuals. I have encountered some good women, and then I’ve met some that makes a pencil sharpener seem attractive. Personality-wise, I’m talking about.

Problem I have is that I still have to deal with a deck of card stacked against me. I’ve been in several accident, have had three TBIs (Google TBI, and I have four, total) since my wife left, had to rebuild my life again each time. I’m getting tired of it. And ever since that first one since my wife left, I simply do not remember HOW to attract a woman and maintain a relationship.

I have had to put up with some women that, quite frankly, can‘t shut the fuck up. This one neighbor lady, all she does is bitch at me, always angry, so I ignore her. Last time I met her was at the grocery store and I made the mistake of holding the door open for her. She got all mouthy with me about how I “owe it” to her, I got mouthy myself and told her “maybe your husbands wouldn’t have beat the shit out of you if you learned how to shut the fuck up for once!” I felt bad about saying that...for less than a minute. When I went in the store a handful of clerks and customers were laughing about it- “OMG! You said that! OMG!” “Well, I was nice to her, and she didn’t like it. What am I to do?” “Yeah, she doesn’t like men, that’s for sure!”
After that I did giggle some, but I still feel so sorry for her and her bitterness.

With that aside, it seems that I cannot find any decent women. And when I do, they get nervious around me. I don’t “look them up like pieces of meat”...well, not always...and I’m respectful. But it seem that I cannot attract ANY women.

Last time I had a date was in 2004. Last time I got laid was in Jan. of 2000. I think I gotta change something somewhere.

 

Give kokujin A Call, I'm Sure You Two Could Chat For Hours...



Cheers Glen.

 

Can I get a Hallelujah! OMG with the talking

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

Hi, Logan. From what I have seen of your posts on this forum, you seem like a good caring soul individual.
I would not worry about your bitter neighbor, and stop looking at her for your own reflections or anyone like that. Forget about sex for now...Look to make friends with someone first......and I think you need a woman who is very nurturing.....and I get the sense you are just not in the right places to meet any right now....Join a group of people who share an interest of yours.....etc.....
I wish you luck and better days ahead.....

 

lol


Idk, Logan, where do you meet women that you are interested in? You may want to think of some different places... I haven't had to date or meet new potential dates or significant others for a long time but when I did I always met people through shared interests-whether some part of the music scene or... other things. But typically the people around me would be people that I could see myself being friends with and if there's a bunch of people you can envision yourself being friends with, then... it stands to follow....

 

Thank you. I know what you’re saying, sadly when I’m dealing with loneliness, sometimes just a woman to hug is nice to have.

I dunno about meeting women other than at the college.

My dear friend Glen, you are so easily confused! I tried doing a “flipping the bird” message but it keeps getting scrwed up by the html crap. So just imagine it I guess.
Yeah, enjoying a conversation with kukujin...I don’t think so! lol!

 

Oh well.

 

You should never really expect the truth on this topic, from well anyone

 

I know. I was just giving Glen a hard time over his comment, all in humor I know.

Women...damned if you do and damned if you don't.

 

I am sending you plenty of hugs through the air waves......

 

We aren't all that bad. Ever hear there is someone for every one? It's true but some people have their eye shut and miss it. As said earlier, make a friend with a nice lady first. Some women need friends First, then something clicks later. By that time you know her better and she shouldn't turn out so bad like the ones you have dealt with.

 

I am hesitant to reply to your post because judging just from this post (can't recall seeing other posts by you), you honestly seem like you don't respect women. Now, maybe I'm wrong about that. But you rudely said some women can't shut the fuck up. Some women like to talk. It sounds like you just want an obedient woman that isn't going to talk. If you think respecting a woman is simply not "looking them up like pieces of meat," you're wrong, no wonder you can't attract a "decent" woman. You're probably disrespectful and in turn, you're getting angry, bitter women coming your way.

 

Nah Rainy, you havn't read my other posts. Oh well.

 

2000? Why do I not believe that?

As an XX human, I can tell you that I'm not interested in romance or intimacy with you. Why? Come out from under somebody else's bed and confess no more. You may find yourself on top of your own bed with someone who'll fill your ears with delightful whispers.

 

Logan had a post about helping the homeless. If IRL, he told me to shut up, I would tell him the same....but I think he is decent inside, and it would not mean anything really very brutal. That is just my opinion.

 

She was my wife. That's a big part. But there are other factors.

 

I understand.

Maybe you should approach your neighbor for mutual compassionate friendship. Just a thought.

 

I really don't care for her. Just using her as an example.